Scott Thomas Posted January 23, 2014 Posted January 23, 2014 My wife had a short affair with a co worker(6-8) from what I can tell. I have read all these text messages they sent to eavhother and some of it realy bothers me. They never actually said "I love you" to one another that I saw but there was a lot of stuff like I'm falling for you, and they talked about how they wished they had married one another instead. My question for WS out there is this: my my now swears that she dident mean any of it. That it was all just some kind of fantasy and she never felt this way. Is this a player able story? Can anyone relate to this? I can't for the life of me imagine why anyone would say these things without meaning them. But I have never had an affair either. She very well could be lying to me. Lord knows she has done a lot of hat lately. I just wanted to hear from someone that might have experienced what she did. I'm sorry to bust any bubbles but I wouldn't except that excuse. 'I didn't mean it'? Have you ever heard of someone getting away with a felony by claiming that they didn't mean it? What has she done after D-Day? What steps is she taking to work on your marriage. More importantly, are you sure that they've maintained NC and the affair has ended? Does the OM's spouse know)?
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