love1336x Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 I don't know why, but I am sort of bothered by the fact my ex is getting marry. It's been about 4 years since we have broken up. I am OVER him. I do not think about him at all. We do work together. I've learned to simply tune him out. lol. We can be in the same room together and it won't bother me one bit. But, oh course people at my lovely job told me the"GREAT NEW" about his engagement, and my heart felt… pain. I guess secretly without me ever really pondering on it wanting a chance to get back together? I dunno... I wish I wasn't annoyed by it. He was my first boyfriend. First Kiss. He took my virginity.FIRST EVERYTHING. I guess that could be the real reason why I am bothered. I wish him happiness though. 1
LostConfused123 Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 I think it's normal to feel a little pang of hurt. I just found out my ex (before this one) is in Hawaii vacationing with his new girlfriend. I am totally over him and glad he ended it (he was a liar and NEVER even had the guts to end it, he just disappeared) Total dirtbag!!! Still it hurt a little, like why is he happy, in love and in paradise after he treated me so poorly. Like where is the justice in that???? And I am here nursing my broken heart. It passed after a couple days though. So sorry you're hurt! Best of luck!! ((hugs!!)) 2
John83 Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 I think its that it confirms that they have well and truly moved on, i think even when you are over them 110% it still hurts just a little. I remember a few years ago at work my mate dug up the facebook page of my 'first love'. She was married with a baby, at the time i was very happy with my now ex and have 2 wonderfull children who i adore, but i still had a few pangs of hurt, they didnt last it was just probably old deep buried emotions being stirred up a little. It will pass, you have done the hard part. 2
Author love1336x Posted January 14, 2014 Author Posted January 14, 2014 yea. I think because I'm not in a relationship. its hurts more to see him all happy with his new love. time will heal this wound. I know hes not the only man for me. 2
LostConfused123 Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 yea. I think because I'm not in a relationship. its hurts more to see him all happy with his new love. time will heal this wound. I know hes not the only man for me. Me too. If I was in a happy relationship. . . . well. . . maybe not even that. Maybe if I just wasn't hurting so bad about my current heartbreak, happy relationship or not. . . I probably wouldn't have cared less. Secretly hoping he gets sand in his butt crack
mendsley Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 yea. I think because I'm not in a relationship. its hurts more to see him all happy with his new love. time will heal this wound. I know hes not the only man for me. This right here could help you put the ex in the deep depths of your head. I was a mess seeing everyone all hugging, kissing, driving together, etc... now that I found someone else I could careless what the ex is doing. You will always have the thought of your ex in your mind, but when someone replaces that person those thoughts turn from a dull pain to a "what the fúck was I thinking." You need to get active on meeting someone, it will amaze you how quick you start forgetting about the ex. Mike 2
Author love1336x Posted January 15, 2014 Author Posted January 15, 2014 that's the thing I have been saying to myself "what a selfish little man" I'm was very happy from him to be out of my life I'm guess my real problem being single... I know for a fact I dont want him. I miss that connection with a person. dating is so hard.
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