GUNSNROSES Posted January 11, 2005 Posted January 11, 2005 Hi all I've used this thing before and I have found quite a bit of help on here so I thought I would come again and post something else. Well me and my girl have been going out for about 1 year and 2 months and well we had really really good sex yes and well recently she supposedly "Matured" or has she put it got her prioritys set. Well since she has done this any sex that we used to have has gone away we used to have it a lot but now its like cool if It even happens yes sure I ask sometimes and I have even asked her is 2x good since we live about 2 hours from each other and both of us being only 17 and the way gas is today you get the idea. Well when I see her usualy once a week you know Its like hey can we do something since we haven't seen or done anything just talked on the phone. I will admit that I have sometimes bugged her about sex like can we please have it you know like I haven't seen you in a week but no. To kick well whenever she's horny she wants to have sex you know its like when you get horny you get to have sex but when I'm horny I don't I was ok sounds fun. Well I've finaly asked her why and all she can say is that she's "Matured" and please someone tell me that sex is like 10% in a relationship you know cause she says that you don't need sex in a relationship she'd be happy with none she said so I leave you with all this and hope you can come up with an answer ok Ty a lot and I'll be checkin in once in a while Thanks a lot for your comments
Mr Spock Posted January 11, 2005 Posted January 11, 2005 Ok. First of all, you're probably not very good at it. Don't be unhappy, it just takes learning. Second of all, you're young so you can only think with your second brain. Nothing stopping you from jerking off 5 times a day if you're that horny. Please understand that most teenage girls don't know HOW to enjoy sex, and that when she's feeling "horny" it's more than likely her feeling emotionally close or caring for you, not because it sends her into raptures. "Maturing" is when teenage girls realize that sex is a powerful tool best put to use for their own benefit, not yours. It's also hard to take someone's request for companionship seriously when you know all they want to do is dip the wick. Maybe try NOT having sex when and if she initiates it again. If you can.
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