MoooOinkBaaa Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 My ex of four months who dumped me over a crush she had. She finally slept with him and she's complaining on Twitter how angry she is because he slept with someone else a week later after my ex poured her heart out to him how much she loved him. She's all sorts of angry stuff like how she's given up on love and trust nobody ever. WELCOME TO MY WORLD LOVE! hahahaha Made my day (sorry for immature thread but I love it). 2
strive Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 I looooove karma stories. Except--why are you not NC? LOL. But I think we can forgive you for this. 3
mammasita Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 Good story but yeah - why do you even know this. Shame on you!! 3
TaraMaiden Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 Shall I come in on this Karma thing....? Should I even......? Nah..... *sigh* 9
Fufu Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 My ex of four months who dumped me over a crush she had. She finally slept with him and she's complaining on Twitter how angry she is because he slept with someone else a week later after my ex poured her heart out to him how much she loved him. She's all sorts of angry stuff like how she's given up on love and trust nobody ever. WELCOME TO MY WORLD LOVE! hahahaha Made my day (sorry for immature thread but I love it). What if you found out that she got married instead? Would you still have the same feeling you have? I will say you are "lucky" that it's a bad situation that she is now facing. But what's the point of knowing what she is facing now? Does it concern you? No it doesn't. If the next time you sees that she has recovered and spending great quality time with her new guy, how will you feel? How will you react? Best solution is to stay away any news/info about her. 6
margot13 Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 My ex of four months who dumped me over a crush she had. She finally slept with him and she's complaining on Twitter how angry she is because he slept with someone else a week later after my ex poured her heart out to him how much she loved him. She's all sorts of angry stuff like how she's given up on love and trust nobody ever. WELCOME TO MY WORLD LOVE! hahahaha Made my day (sorry for immature thread but I love it). My biggest question is "who would share that on twitter?" Wow that is way more immature than your reaction...... 7
seekingpeaceinlove Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 Lol. Couldn't agree with you more, margot. Stupidity knows no bounds when it comes to social media. My biggest question is "who would share that on twitter?" Wow that is way more immature than your reaction...... 1
organizedchaos Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 I looooove karma stories. Except--why are you not NC? LOL. But I think we can forgive you for this. Because he refuses to stop stalking her profile. 5
JDPT Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 My biggest question is "who would share that on twitter?" Wow that is way more immature than your reaction...... I had to chuckle at this...sorry So true 1
Author MoooOinkBaaa Posted January 15, 2014 Author Posted January 15, 2014 (edited) I wouldn't be bothered if she married someone else. She repulses me with her attitude on Twitter, I'll make a thread about it this week. True it would of hurt if she was still the lovely girl she was but I was willing to take that hit for the truth, I'm a truth seeker. This is very easy for me though with the way she's turned out, even my friend reads her Twitter just to see how much of a **** she is being still. She said she is miserable and annoying. She posts every last little detail of her life on it 24/7. When she first slept with him three weeks ago that was it for me, that was the last nail in the coffin for hope. She posted things like "last night was crazy but so worth it" "i'm going to be smiling all day" "first i was complaining i couldn't get laid, now i'm complaining i can't get laid regular". It's really bad, she was even comparing herself to his ex gf on Twitter and posting a picture of her asking if she was prettier or not. She was posting how it's going to be a year since she's been laid and how bad she need it openly on Twitter. Seriously she's changed really bad she was never like this. She posted a while back how she wasted seven years of her life with me, and now she knows how to NOT relationship. (Like it takes 7 years to find out, haha.) She really hurt me back then but I continued reading her Twitter and it's helped me get over her so much. Serves her right for rebounding. She should of took the time to grow and find herself like she said she wanted. Instead of pouring her heart out to a guy. Some people just can't be alone and happy. So this guy slept with her for one night, so my ex sent him a message pouring her heart out but he ignored it and slept with someone else a week later. She's posting angry tweets how never to trust guys, how she hates them. Funny that cause in seven years I was loyal as hell to her, I didn't even talk to other women. Now I know the real reason she dumped me. Edited January 15, 2014 by MoooOinkBaaa 1
Winter blue Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 When she first slept with him three weeks ago that was it for me, that was the last nail in the coffin for hope. She posted things like "last night was crazy but so worth it" "i'm going to be smiling all day" "first i was complaining i couldn't get laid, now i'm complaining i can't get laid regular". Now I know the real reason she dumped me. Wow, just wow. Be glad you dodged a bullet. How old is she? sound very inmature and no respect to your relationship. 3
maturityassets Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 but you don't have to know that to move on. I learned 5 months ago via a mutual friend that my ex is in another relationship and haven't checked up on it at all since. For all I know she is still with that guy or she broke up. Maybe he cheats on her or maybe she cheats on him. Who gives a ****? Doesn't concern me... You know if it will ever concern me? If she came running to me trying to tell me about it but i don't see that happening so i don't plan to hear anything about that ever. Good luck man just stop checking her twitter and honestly tell your friends you don't want to hear how so and so is doing because it ended. Best of luck again 1
almond Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 Deriving enjoyment from the misery of others is not a good thing. You should work to get past this. 2
HokeyReligions Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 Deriving enjoyment from the misery of others is not a good thing. You should work to get past this. Ditto. Have you ever thought there may be someone who was just as gleeful over your pain?
Author MoooOinkBaaa Posted January 15, 2014 Author Posted January 15, 2014 Ditto. Have you ever thought there may be someone who was just as gleeful over your pain? Yeah my ex... She's not even in pain, she's just a drama queen attention seeker who's miserable because she can't get laid enough. 1
Simon Phoenix Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 Please, for the love of God, stop following her on Twitter. 5
RDawg Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 haha.. well I understand your need to gloat a bit, it's only natural. c'mon we're only human.. 4
ravssss Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 i agree with OP that its good to be the truth seeker after break up .. .rather than go NC immediate and have a lot of what ifs in mind later ... i wud say rather close the chapter after seeking the truth and open your eyes about her ... it might be painful ... but helps later ..because u r sure abt not going back ... 1
Author MoooOinkBaaa Posted January 15, 2014 Author Posted January 15, 2014 Exactly I seek the truth not distractions from reality. Checking her Twitter showed me what I needed to know and now it doesn't affect me in a negative way. It's helped me learn about human nature. I would of made more threads on here asking questions but she answered most of them by spilling her thoughts on Twitter. I can honestly say if she ever came back I would 1000% not take her back. 70% of my attraction to her was her personality and nature, she did a 180 and so did my feelings towards her.
TaraMaiden Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 What do you think "Karma" has done, or IS doing, for you? 1
Mrlonelyone Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 Well OP id' say good for you for finding out the truth. All that "finding herself" and "growing as a person" stuff is just BS whenever it is said. A person can grow through commitment and marriage and family. A person can find themselves in the eyes of their own children. It's all just an excuse to sow some more wild oats. She thought the grass was greener, and found out the grass was not only not green, it was Astroturf. 1
ElecTriX Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 Good luck man just stop checking her twitter and honestly tell your friends you don't want to hear how so and so is doing because it ended. This. Cut the cord so the speak or else someday you will read something that will hit you in the face guaranteed. Trust me.
organizedchaos Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 She still has you hooked because you cant stop being connected to her, even in this twisted way. You are still stuck on her. You have not reached indifference even though you say you have. True indifference means you wouldn't give a crap about what she's doing right now. And you wouldn't be gloating about it here either. And you wouldn't even care to keep checking in on her twitter. She still has an emotional effect on you. 1
TaraMaiden Posted January 16, 2014 Posted January 16, 2014 What do you think "Karma" has done, or IS doing, for you? Was my question.... and this.... She still has you hooked because you cant stop being connected to her, even in this twisted way. You are still stuck on her. You have not reached indifference even though you say you have. True indifference means you wouldn't give a crap about what she's doing right now. And you wouldn't be gloating about it here either. And you wouldn't even care to keep checking in on her twitter. She still has an emotional effect on you. ...seems to be the answer. And you create your karma. all the time, every minute, right here. Karma means, quite simply, Action. Volitional, deliberate, intentional. And by you constantly leading her to the forefront of your thinking, and seeing, and speaking and doing, you are suffering through the Karma you are creating. THIS - is what you - are doing - to you - right now. THAT - is Karma. 7
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