Markholland Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 basically my ex is 19 im 22 we were together for nearly 3 years she broke it off over a month ago said she wanted to experience life gigs syndrome then she ran straight to another guy who she had a thing with before she met me i did no contact ect fast forward a month im now with another girl who i like and moving on with life last night she contacted me then asked what i was up to i never replied then today i replied with stay the f**k out of my life delete my number i dont want anything to do with you i also heard she has been chatting up a friend of mine and i told her again to stay the f**k away from me and my friends and social life otherwise il make her life a living hell i just want her gone for good and not associated with me what so ever ,, did i do and say the right thing ? im currently in a new relationship and dont want her contacting me or anything becouse i feel it will mess with my mind im really focused on this new girl and i can see myself having a great future with her whats your opinions ??? did i do a bad or good thing ?
boricuarage79 Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 Just don't reply back at all..She will get the picture and will know sooner or later that you are not interested in her. The way you describe her; she sounds really messed up. Especially if she is trying to get at your friend. I think she is trying to play you. Just focus on your relationship and nothing more. P.S. If your friend tries to get with her.. He is not a friend...
Never Again Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 First things first - please break your story up into paragraphs going forward. It's easier to read that way. People aren't going to read a wall of text, so your replies might be limited. To answer your question: does it matter? You reacted in an angry and immature way, but you want this girl gone, so what you say to her is rather irrelevant. Honestly, you're letting her mess with your head by being so angry about it. If you don't care, you wouldn't be so upset by her behavior. Just block her and keep your trap shut. Let her talk to whomever she wants to talk to. Don't try to control her, just ignore her.
Author Markholland Posted January 14, 2014 Author Posted January 14, 2014 Just don't reply back at all..She will get the picture and will know sooner or later that you are not interested in her. The way you describe her; she sounds really messed up. Especially if she is trying to get at your friend. I think she is trying to play you. Just focus on your relationship and nothing more. P.S. If your friend tries to get with her.. He is not a friend... thanks mate i do think she is starting to play mind games but im not falling for that im just doing my thing ,and hes more of a associate then a friend but still i want her out of my life
sw2020 Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 1 month out of a 3 year relationship and in to another is moving very fast. Be calm dude. Being horrible to your ex will not help the situation.
Author Markholland Posted January 14, 2014 Author Posted January 14, 2014 First things first - please break your story up into paragraphs going forward. It's easier to read that way. People aren't going to read a wall of text, so your replies might be limited. To answer your question: does it matter? You reacted in an angry and immature way, but you want this girl gone, so what you say to her is rather irrelevant. Honestly, you're letting her mess with your head by being so angry about it. If you don't care, you wouldn't be so upset by her behavior. Just block her and keep your trap shut. Let her talk to whomever she wants to talk to. Don't try to control her, just ignore her. thats fair but im not so angry about it i just want her gone and completely out of my life i feel the only way to tell her is to just say F**k off stay away !!!
boricuarage79 Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 1 month out of a 3 year relationship and in to another is moving very fast. Be calm dude. Being horrible to your ex will not help the situation. he is young..if he feels happy then so be it
boricuarage79 Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 First things first - please break your story up into paragraphs going forward. It's easier to read that way. People aren't going to read a wall of text, so your replies might be limited. To answer your question: does it matter? You reacted in an angry and immature way, but you want this girl gone, so what you say to her is rather irrelevant. Honestly, you're letting her mess with your head by being so angry about it. If you don't care, you wouldn't be so upset by her behavior. Just block her and keep your trap shut. Let her talk to whomever she wants to talk to. Don't try to control her, just ignore her. I do agree in a way... Coming at her in an aggressive way will not solve the problem. Do more you become angry the more she got you. Be the better man
stillafool Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 Well she should certainly have the message by now. You were angry in your response but you got the message across to her. She would be a fool to contact you again after that message. I agree with others that from this point on just ignore her. She now knows how you feel.
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