json12 Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 So I have been dating this girl for about 9 months now. We had great time in those months. But recently we have been arguing a lot about little things. My communication style is different and when I ask her to do somethings, she thinks Im trying to trash her and make her feel like she's not doing anything just the way I wanted. Now I love this girl to death but every time I say something to her just ends up being something mean. But that's not what I intend to say to her. This past weekend we got into an arguement when she tried to hide a conversation on her phone. It made me really mad since she deleted the conversation off the phone. It turns out she was talking to her sister about me and my girlfriend and our relationship. The only thing I asked her was to know who she was talking to but she tried to hide that. She cried in front of everyone and said that I don't trust her. Anyway, after that day everything started coming out on how mean I was to her when I tell her something and how we have been fighting. I told her that's just the way I talk to other people (even my family and friends). Im not mean, I care about you and stuff but the way I word it might sound wrong (English is not my first language). So after that day, I tried talking to her and she says she doesn't want to talk to me and wants time to her self. She still loves me but wants to reevaluate our relationship. This came out of no where and it shocked me. We saw each other everyday for past 9 months and all of a sudden she stopped talking to me like this. I really don't know what to do. I wanna be with this girl. I love her. I told her Im sorry if I said something wrong. But right now she just wants a self time. Im really not sure if she's going to break up with me or not. I just can't do anything without thinking about her. Im looking for any advice. I tried texting her but she ignores me. Would it be good idea to talk to her face to face and try talking to her. She says she's not the type of girl I'm looking for. I told her that's not the case. I love you and want to spend my life with you. I feel helpless and lost. Please help. We're both in our early 20's. This is my last college semester and she's done and working full time.
sw2020 Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 If she has asked for some space, give the girl some space. I know it's hard and sucks right now, but if you push her, she will just keep distancing herself. Be cool dude. (as cool as can be).
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