conmorse Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 It's been 2 months since the breakup after a 2 year relationship, and today I found myself really missing her a lot. I've been in N/C since the beginning and I'm at the stage where I don't want her back, but I still haven't fully accepted what's happened. Despite how cold she was and the terrible things she did right after the break up, I still miss her... well, at least I miss who she was. I hate how I still think about her when clearly I shouldn't be- I should be focusing on myself. Sometimes I just can't help but think about the past...I need to move on
Shashasha Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 It's been 2 months since the breakup after a 2 year relationship, and today I found myself really missing her a lot. I've been in N/C since the beginning and I'm at the stage where I don't want her back, but I still haven't fully accepted what's happened. Despite how cold she was and the terrible things she did right after the break up, I still miss her... well, at least I miss who she was. I hate how I still think about her when clearly I shouldn't be- I should be focusing on myself. Sometimes I just can't help but think about the past...I need to move on What you are feeling is completely normal - we all have been there! Please hang in there - please keep up with the NC and be strong - always keep busy, surround yourself with people whom you love and love you and work on being a better you. She does not want you back and you do not want her after all she's done. Be positive!! Hang in there
hurts2death Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 ^ plus it is so early yet very very early. the healing is a long process. cycle it .cycle through this beautifull nightmare. i promise freedom is there when you cross it.
jphcbpa Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 Despite how cold she was and the terrible things she did right after the break up ^ ^^^^ keep focused on the things you did not like about the R, how it ended and about her. take her off the pedestal. I miss the person, but I do not miss they way I felt at times in the R.
H245 Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 ^ ^^^^ keep focused on the things you did not like about the R, how it ended and about her. take her off the pedestal. I miss the person, but I do not miss they way I felt at times in the R. This is what I am trying to do myself. When I first met my ex, she was an amazing person full of life, affection, and would do anything to be with me. In the end, she was cold, distant, and manipulative. I keep trying to focus about how messed up she was in the end and how she tried to turn her own screw up into being my fault. It helps some days, and other days I miss the person she used to be.
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