Mondmellonw Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 So, I guess the answer for this will be a great "NO, DON'T". But I'm very curious about this, it might be a coincidence or another attempt to ruin my life and know my actual privacy lol. There are friends of my ex I never knew (I only saw them on facebook). They knew I was his girl, but they never added me. (And I'm not the kind to add someone I don't know in person)... The thing is: They're adding me now that I left him, that he is "friends" with his cheating ex and is dating this "girl friend" I had. Do you think this might be a coincidence? Am I too paranoid? This is WEIRD.
Philosoraptor Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 Are you their friend? If not, then just ignore it. Sounds like these are random people adding you so just ignore it and enjoy your day. 1
Haydn Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 Possibly a sick game. Ingore and block them. You know it makes sense. No straws to be grasped here Mondmellow. So, I guess the answer for this will be a great "NO, DON'T". But I'm very curious about this, it might be a coincidence or another attempt to ruin my life and know my actual privacy lol. There are friends of my ex I never knew (I only saw them on facebook). They knew I was his girl, but they never added me. (And I'm not the kind to add someone I don't know in person)... The thing is: They're adding me now that I left him, that he is "friends" with his cheating ex and is dating this "girl friend" I had. Do you think this might be a coincidence? Am I too paranoid? This is WEIRD. 2
Author Mondmellonw Posted January 13, 2014 Author Posted January 13, 2014 Yes, I don't know them for real... Except for one guy, I decided to accept him, but the others, I don't know them and that is for sure. Like I said, I knew they were his drinking buddies. They never added me while I was "his girl", but now, wth? It just makes me overthink. It could be one way or another: 1) It's random. 2) It's a sick game. Thanks for your advice, Haydn and Philosoraptor.
Chi townD Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 If you followed the advice that's usually given on here; one of the most important things to do is block our Ex's on Facebook. If you've done this, then it wouldn't surprise me that his friends are trying to friend you. Your Ex asked them to friend you so he could keep tabs on you. So, if you excepted one of them as a friend, then defriend him. Hell, you don't even know this guy so you shouldn't be friending him in the first place. Ignore the rest. 2
Author Mondmellonw Posted January 13, 2014 Author Posted January 13, 2014 If you followed the advice that's usually given on here; one of the most important things to do is block our Ex's on Facebook. If you've done this, then it wouldn't surprise me that his friends are trying to friend you. Your Ex asked them to friend you so he could keep tabs on you. So, if you excepted one of them as a friend, then defriend him. Hell, you don't even know this guy so you shouldn't be friending him in the first place. Ignore the rest. Well, I met him. The ones I didn't met... I won't accept them, but you're right, I guess it's a better choice if I delete him. I actually don't use my account that much, so it's basically empty. I'm very "selfish" with my privacy. I did blocked him and I got blocked by his other ex. I also blocked that so called friend of mine, and I blocked another person involved. Dunno.... I don't like feeling curious, but I am right now. Gotta deal with it and ignore this guys. Thanks.
Chi townD Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 Well then, there ya go! Sounds like he's trying to keep tabs on you. Good for you to recognize it. It's none of his damn business about what you're up to anymore. 2
Author Mondmellonw Posted January 13, 2014 Author Posted January 13, 2014 Well then, there ya go! Sounds like he's trying to keep tabs on you. Good for you to recognize it. It's none of his damn business about what you're up to anymore. Maybe, or maybe not. Maybe they're trying to be a window for me, so I can see how happy he is being now. Seeing that he is getting his drinks and his girls will only be a stupid thing. Best choice is to stay away and to stay focused on my healing... I'll repeat this to myself all day long. Thanks Chi
Chi townD Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 Good Girl! And even if they're trying to supply you a window to show you how happy he is with his life? Is that any better for you? So what! Ignore it! Focus on you! Make positive changes in your life. Get excited and motivated for the adventures you're about to have! The best revenge we can get is to lead a DAMN good life! So, go get it! 2
Author Mondmellonw Posted January 13, 2014 Author Posted January 13, 2014 Good Girl! And even if they're trying to supply you a window to show you how happy he is with his life? Is that any better for you? So what! Ignore it! Focus on you! Make positive changes in your life. Get excited and motivated for the adventures you're about to have! The best revenge we can get is to lead a DAMN good life! So, go get it! Your words are truly motivational haha. Thank you.
mantlefan Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 Your Ex asked them to friend you so he could keep tabs on you. This would be my guess. 1
Author Mondmellonw Posted January 14, 2014 Author Posted January 14, 2014 This would be my guess. Maybe mantlefan, maybe not. I'm trying not to think about it that much. It's just social media and I don't want to ever hear anything from him again... Not anymore.
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