Shashasha Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 Urgh. I need help!!! Someone please convince me this guy I have been talking in my previous thread is a jerk. Cant stop thinking about him :s
Leigh 87 Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 No offense, You shouldn't need convincing; a women with an adequate level of self respect wouldn't pine for a guy who showed such clear signals that he didn't care about her. Do you honestly need convincing? Come on.... I think you KNOW there is no reason to contact him or dwell on the whole episode. ..... 2
Author Shashasha Posted January 13, 2014 Author Posted January 13, 2014 No offense, You shouldn't need convincing; a women with an adequate level of self respect wouldn't pine for a guy who showed such clear signals that he didn't care about her. Do you honestly need convincing? Come on.... I think you KNOW there is no reason to contact him or dwell on the whole episode. ..... Thanks Yep, I am trying to knock some sense into my head. I ll be okie!
d0nnivain Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 Go re-read the thread. We warned you all he wanted was sex. 1
winny Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 I get you... But it's just a phase. What u need to do is every time his thought crosses your mind you consciously divert it to something else. Anything that you really love - work, shopping, gossiping with girl friends, cooking, getting your nails done.... Or just imagine a happy future with your ideal mate... Believe that u will meet such a guy very shortly... Or make a list of all his bad qualities and go thru it.. Keep on doing this for few days and slowly u will stop thinking about him altogether... Never keep an idle mind and you will stop thinking about him.... 1
Author Shashasha Posted January 14, 2014 Author Posted January 14, 2014 Go re-read the thread. We warned you all he wanted was sex. I heeded your warning! Did not do anything with him I am good now...Thanks xxx
Author Shashasha Posted January 14, 2014 Author Posted January 14, 2014 I get you... But it's just a phase. What u need to do is every time his thought crosses your mind you consciously divert it to something else. Anything that you really love - work, shopping, gossiping with girl friends, cooking, getting your nails done.... Or just imagine a happy future with your ideal mate... Believe that u will meet such a guy very shortly... Or make a list of all his bad qualities and go thru it.. Keep on doing this for few days and slowly u will stop thinking about him altogether... Never keep an idle mind and you will stop thinking about him.... You give the best advice! This is exactly what I am doing now...it really helps...thanks so very much xxx 1
winny Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 You give the best advice! This is exactly what I am doing now...it really helps...thanks so very much xxx Thanks!! Glad I could help 1
Frank2thepoint Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 Urgh. I need help!!! Someone please convince me this guy I have been talking in my previous thread is a jerk. Cant stop thinking about him :s My usual approach with the ladies is telling them I like them and am looking for a serious relationship. I end up scaring them off. But you Shashasha is proof that if a guy just plays games and wants sex, the girl can't stop thinking about him. Maybe I will try this method from now on.
Author Shashasha Posted January 15, 2014 Author Posted January 15, 2014 My usual approach with the ladies is telling them I like them and am looking for a serious relationship. I end up scaring them off. But you Shashasha is proof that if a guy just plays games and wants sex, the girl can't stop thinking about him. Maybe I will try this method from now on. Please don't!!!!! I have stopped thinking about him. Why do you want to be a jerk? Girls don't like jerks forever!!!
winny Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 My usual approach with the ladies is telling them I like them and am looking for a serious relationship. I end up scaring them off. Those are unstable people!
Author Shashasha Posted January 15, 2014 Author Posted January 15, 2014 Those are unstable people! Hahaha definitely! Anyway, bumped into the guy at work today and we actually had a nice conversation! Nothing more, nothing less...
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