Amaury Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 We broke up almost 4 months ago after 1yr and a half relationship. It was a great relationship then she showed signs of G.I.G.S but at the time I didnt know about it since I came here after everything went sour. Anyway after we broke up it was kinda mutual since we drifted apart but I thought if it was meant to be we would get back together if not then we would remain good friends since I really enjoyed her company and we had a lot of similar interest. Until I realized how little I must've meant to her since she moved on so quickly after sleeping with a few (yea a few) guys only a month after we broke up. I was upset when I found out (she told me) I insulted her pretty much called her a slut she stopped hitting me up (which I wanted). She contacted me twice on different occasions but it was really brief and it was through txt. Fast forward to now and I can't get the thought of what she is up to out of my head and it gets me really mad because I felt like I was doing good progress and now its almost like I'm back at square one. I cut her off completely after I found out the surprising news, no phone # no facebook or instances. Now I have to keep convincing myself to not make another account just to see how she has been doing without me or what she is up to but I always have to remind myself that if I do all thos NC and progress will go to waste and that on social media websites ppl only put pics of what THEY want so its not she will be sad in them. I feel confused and I haven't been getting much sleep recently because of this. I dont want her back in my life not even as a friend, if she txted me today i wouldnt respond because i have nothing to say to her. Can someone offer some advice or has this happened to you before? I know it takes time but every second feels like an eternity.
WYSWYG Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 (edited) It's because we miss their company, the good times, intimate moments, their voice, their jokes, their presence. Nothing made us happier than them. They we're our WORLD and it's hard to believe that it's over and it is. So we always wonder how they are now? Are they happy still? The memories lives but she's not that person anymore. We asked why and we can't find the answers. Why it's so unfair, why it happened just like that, what went go wrong? what coulda, shoulda, woulda, etc That emotional roller-coaster cripples us. We're in our personal prison. If anything, understand that most people here suffers the same fate. Perhaps another million or so in this world right now. I'm just glad we have this forum to vent and find support. NC is my best advice. It will take time but outa sight, outa mind. Edited January 13, 2014 by WYSWYG
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