rooman Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 (edited) I've been curious of late, and the question is fairly simple... Is your partner having a life long STD, a deal-breaker for you? It was brought up in another thread about the minds natural instinct to protect yourself, and a life long health risk can throw all sorts of doubt in your mind. I am clean and found out my partner was not. I still think about it, and it has made me question my decision to part ways. Your thoughts are welcome, and anyone who has had this dilemma please tell me what you thought, and what ultimately happened to your relationship? Edit - to clarify, if I was married to my partner I would not be thinking of this. I would support her 100%, but being in a BF/GF relationship without marriage, children, or other commitments is where I am coming from. Edited January 13, 2014 by rooman clarification
Trnamakesnse Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 If I found out my partner had a life long STD after being married I would wonder if they cheated and if not then I'd be pissed they hid something like that. Second yes it might be a dealbreaker, I wouldn't bring that up the first date. But if I like a woman enough and trust her and think she might be the long term marriageable woman I'd take her for who she is.
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