DreamingAdriana Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 I have a great man. He is loving, sweet, strong, attractive, and many other qualities. Over time, our connection has only grown.We have been together 2 years. I trust him as I have trusted no other. Trust is difficult for me. He loves me just for being myself. I know with him I am free. I was married once before. My ex-husband turned out to be a not-so-nice man once I married him. After 10 months, and the birth of my son, I finally found the courage to leave him. I lost sight of who I was, and I've been struggling to find myself. In this lost time of my life, this wonderful man came into the picture. Maybe I was just lonely. Maybe I just wanted to really be loved. I've broken up with him twice because I felt lost, that I don't know who I am. I'm so afraid to give myself to him, to marry him. I'm afraid that underneath it all he isn't so nice either. I'm afraid we won't last. I feel like something is missing. I don't know what it is, and it's troubling me. Why can't I just be with this man that loves me so unconditionally?
Philosoraptor Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 I'd suggest professional therapy. You need to learn to not associate the misdeeds of another with someone else. This wonderful man, as you call him, has not wronged you. 1
Recommended Posts