TakingControlOfMC Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 Omg I'm having such a hard time with NC. It's been four days since my ex and I have spoken and I feel the urge to want to pick up the phone and call but instead I'm posting here in hopes of remaining strong. How long before the urge to want to communicate goes away?
LeftAlone83 Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 TakingControlOfMC.. I know EXACTLY what you're feeling. The first few days of my exMM and I not talking.. I was absolutely miserable. I was so grief stricken, I couldn't even get out of bed, go to work, or do anything but cry. On top of losing my MM, I came clean to my closest circle of girlfriends about the A.. and apologized for lying to them about it. They all shunned me, and turned their backs on me. So I had no MM, and no friends.. I felt completely alone. Did you, or your MM initiate the NC?? How often did you speak with your MM before the NC?? Stay strong.. and just keep telling yourself this: He's itching to speak to you too.. but you deserve a man who can do that without guilt, fear, or deception.
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