LiliesNoLilies Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 Myself, I couldn't go back right now, I'm too hurt and insecure after it all. I need to recover, though I still love him. Let's talk in a year, I would say. How about you? 1
Trapito Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 "Aaaaw, that is soooo sweet! But, uhm NO." That would be my awnser to the asshat. If he asks 'Why'? "Kggg.. Kggg... I'm going in tunn.. kggggg..".
candie13 Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 Kindly go back to whatever rat hole you came out of. Thank you. (time waster, energy sucking bastard, it makes my blood boil inside my veins only thinking about him) 2
Softie Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 I would say, What's changed? Anything, really? Yes - prove it No - I thought so X 1
Heartbroken Eagle Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 Don't get me wrong, I pride myself on being a gentleman, but if my ex ever came back begging for another chance after cheating and lying to me, I would listen to her, ask her how much a second chance would mean to her, look her in the eyes in a warm, loving manner, and then have great pleasure in telling her to ' F&$K off..' Unfortunately I know I will never get the opportunity to do this!!! Anyway, why would I want that piece of trash back in my life... 6
Xemyd Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 I wouldn't say anything, I have nothing to say to him. He broke up with me, and he'd have to do all the talking, and then he'd have to prove himself. He'd be on probation until further notice. 2
realfriends Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 She'd have to do most of the talking but I would probably say things like: "How do you know I am the one? Did you try everyone else out?" "Why do you want me back? You obviously thought I was once disposable?" "How can I trust you again? How do I know one day down the road you won't do the same exact thing again?" 4
Mondmellonw Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 Myself, I couldn't go back right now, I'm too hurt and insecure after it all. I need to recover, though I still love him. Let's talk in a year, I would say. How about you? I would be like: Seriosuly? After all of this? What mask are you wearing right now?... That would be on my mind (only), of course. I would say I have nothing left to say to him, and that I don't want to know what he has to tell me. There's no way back, ever.
margot13 Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 It's too late and too much pain has been felt.... 2
firefly2613 Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 I have so much I would want to say, but she's not even worth it. I'm just ready to move on from her.
TaraMaiden Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 "Jeeeezus kerrist you really need to diet, man!" 3
wildsunandmoon Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 If he came back, and apologized, I would say, "You owe me nothing. Let's just leave things alone." If he wanted to get back together, I would say, "We've been through a lot together. I understand you miss what we were, but I am not that person. Neither are you. I don't think it's going to work."
LostConfused123 Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 Kindly go back to whatever rat hole you came out of. Thank you. (time waster, energy sucking bastard, it makes my blood boil inside my veins only thinking about him) LOL!!! Love it!!! If. . . . and this is a big IF. . . that ever happens. . . I'm going to "borrow" that line. If you don't mind 1
pickflicker Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 I have to wonder how many would actually tell their ex to f*** off. Hypotheticals are great, but the real test is reality. 10
Allumere Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 I would a) welcome him, b) spend some time getting re-acquainted with phone conversations and a couple short dates c) discuss the deal breaker and what has changed in his thinking d) get everything on the table, good, bad and ugly and e) make it clear if it wasn't before that I am not dating for fun, I am looking for someone to share my life with. 1
JDPT Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 I would a) welcome him, b) spend some time getting re-acquainted with phone conversations and a couple short dates c) discuss the deal breaker and what has changed in his thinking d) get everything on the table, good, bad and ugly and e) make it clear if it wasn't before that I am not dating for fun, I am looking for someone to share my life with. And round and round the vicious cycle goes. 4
pickflicker Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 I would a) welcome him, b) spend some time getting re-acquainted with phone conversations and a couple short dates c) discuss the deal breaker and what has changed in his thinking d) get everything on the table, good, bad and ugly and e) make it clear if it wasn't before that I am not dating for fun, I am looking for someone to share my life with. Just checked out your threads - is this the engaged ex? That would be a humongous mistake. 1
AnnaAnna Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 I got nothing to say. He's a stranger to me now. 5
AnnaAnna Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 I would a) welcome him, b) spend some time getting re-acquainted with phone conversations and a couple short dates c) discuss the deal breaker and what has changed in his thinking d) get everything on the table, good, bad and ugly and e) make it clear if it wasn't before that I am not dating for fun, I am looking for someone to share my life with. Big mistake! He dumped you, why would you want him back? btw, you will scare men away if you keep telling them you're not dating for fun and are looking to share your life with somebody. Why not try having fun and maybe then somebody will want to share their life with you.
Allumere Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 And round and round the vicious cycle goes. No. I have not been in a dating situation of breaking up/getting back together..ever. I have not gotten back with an ex either after months or years have passed. However, if after a passage of time (and I'm talking about a year or more) my ex were to come back, then I would certainly be open to it if I was not involved with someone. I gave an honest answer, I also know that there is zero chance of my ex having interest in me from a relationship standpoint because of his stance on religion.
Simon Phoenix Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 So, about those frisbee golf discs you were going to give me, can i still have them? 1
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