shakepig Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 Today is his very special day. we have stayed NC for one week. The memories we being together to celebrate my birthday are still fresh. It was such a loving night. I'm so tempted to say happy birthday to him.. since he gave me a perfect birthday.. I've unfriended him from fb and deleted his number. Since I still can search for him on fb, I've deleted my fb app from my cell phone and will keep this way till passing his birthday.. I dont know. I thought I would be the one that bought him the very first legal drink.. should i at least post something on his fb wall? let him know i remember and i care..
JDPT Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 It's not a special day. It's a Sunday just like any other ordinary Sunday. Right the urge to contact him in any way, shape or form. Keep in mind that you two are no longer together, you no longer need to wish him anything and neither does he. Focus today on you and internalize the fact that the relationship is over. Be strong and continue to post. 4
Fufu Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 Today is his very special day. we have stayed NC for one week. The memories we being together to celebrate my birthday are still fresh. It was such a loving night. I'm so tempted to say happy birthday to him.. since he gave me a perfect birthday.. I've unfriended him from fb and deleted his number. Since I still can search for him on fb, I've deleted my fb app from my cell phone and will keep this way till passing his birthday.. I dont know. I thought I would be the one that bought him the very first legal drink.. should i at least post something on his fb wall? let him know i remember and i care.. I assume he is the dumper. Think of this: If he didn't have break up with you, you guys were have celebrate his birthday together. Conclusion: He doesn't want to celebrate his birthday with you, so you can forget about wishing him the birthday. About how he gave you a great birthday, that was past and that was when you guys were together. Continue NC. 2
veggirl Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 What is your goal in doing this? You know it won't change anything, right. I assume he broke up with you? Don't reach out. You are his ex, I am 30 yrs old and I can tell you with 100% certainty I don't remember whether or not any ex told me happy bday on my 21st. So don't set yourself back by doing it, in the long run it won't do a thing.
barky2 Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 It'll go down like this if you wish him happy birthday. His ego will get boosted. You'll lose power. He won't respond. He may laugh amongst friends. And you'll sit all day checking your phone for a response. Make the day about you instead. Barky 3
chalanting Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 It's not a special day. It's a Sunday just like any other ordinary Sunday. [F]ight the urge to contact him in any way, shape or form. Keep in mind that you two are no longer together, you no longer need to wish him anything and neither does he. Focus today on you and internalize the fact that the relationship is over. Be strong and continue to post. (sorry for the thread hijack! no response necessary) A "like" for this wasn't enough this post. I needed this badly. Thank you. 1
Trapito Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 Uhm.. Hell no! You deleted him from FB, and now you wat to post 'Happy birthday' on his wall? You will look desperate if you do. No need to contact him, you two broke up. If he doesn't respond you will be in a world of hurt, if he does respond or if he 'likes' your post, you will be wondering wat it means. Don't send him a 'Happy birthday' message through FB. Also, don't send it by text, whatsapp, email, post, smoke signal, friends, family or pigeon. Keep your head up and stay strong.
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