Author irc333 Posted January 13, 2014 Author Posted January 13, 2014 (edited) I have to say, I've never been into anything THAT much to warrant not sacrificing a day of said hobby or activity to spend time with a lady. I think anything other than work and family is not even an obligation for me. meet up is my spare time! Yep...same here. LOL True true, and there are people that take it to the extreme but most of the time its just about finding someone who's outlook is the same level as yours I think. I'm captain of the my semi pro football team - that means training twice plus a match once a week, and then I have to find time to think about strategies and set pieces that I can suggest at training - I can't just miss a Saturday - which would probably drive some girls barmy!! It's kind funny, once someone finds someone to date, they fall off the Meetup radar or rarely attend social events with their old friends anymore. They may make an occasional "appearance" during the holidays, but that's about it. They become their own "hobby" and they do hobbies, together...alone OR...with other couples. Edited January 13, 2014 by irc333
Mrlonelyone Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 Apparently, some hobbies can wind up being lifestyles to some. Sometimes a hobby is more than just a hobby. This is your real answer here. They are the kind of person so all consumed by a hobby, or job/career they could only credibly date someone who is in the same line of work. I see this in my line of work a great deal. Scientist tend to marry and stay married to other scientist or people who work in support of scientist. I recall a woman having to break off an engagement with a guy because he was expecting her to take an occasional weekend off from her trail biking friends...she did this every weekend....she wouldn't break routine. There were other things at play, too. Apparently he was stopping by her house too frequently, too. Especially the last sentence of this sounds like someone who just did not want to get married. I mean.... your about to marry someone but they "stop by too frequently"? She's about to marry and live the rest of her life with someone but he's around too frequently, and she won't spend a weekend with him? IRC where do you find these people? lol
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