firefly2613 Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 I have reached a point now where I feel like I bother my friends if I mention her. I feel like they expect me to be over it by now, and I guess I largely am. This is just a list of random thoughts I have because I need to get it out of my head and feel like someone is listening. - Getting rid of my Facebook was the best thing I could have done. - I still struggle with checking her reddit account and twitter. Fortunately she never uses them and I have gotten better with it. - I am recently back home from a wonderful night out with friends. But everytime I come home from socializing, I end up thinking about her. - I sometimes feel like I wasn't a good enough boyfriend and that's why she married the new guy so fast. - I find myself excited by the prospect of meeting other people, but overwhelmed by it all and worried I won't find another spark. - I am very worried about her bday coming up in a month. Afraid it might set me back. - Feeling alright, but a little lonely because most of my friends are all in relationships. Four months later, I am scared but excited. Guess I'm still getting used to the change.
broken11 Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 you are doing great. trust me. just keep up the no contact and i know its been 4 months. i won't know much but for me its been 5 weeks of brake up and no con act, yes i can't stop thinking about him and i think i won't for a while. but what doenst kill u only makes u stronger. don't worry about her birthday.. she's gone. she left u so now its time to move on.. take ur time to recover because heart brake hurts so damn much but make sure u try ur best to forget her. try to go out on her birthday with lots of friends so that u don't actually try to contact her
Fufu Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 I have reached a point now where I feel like I bother my friends if I mention her. I feel like they expect me to be over it by now, and I guess I largely am. This is just a list of random thoughts I have because I need to get it out of my head and feel like someone is listening. - Getting rid of my Facebook was the best thing I could have done. - I still struggle with checking her reddit account and twitter. Fortunately she never uses them and I have gotten better with it. - I am recently back home from a wonderful night out with friends. But everytime I come home from socializing, I end up thinking about her. - I sometimes feel like I wasn't a good enough boyfriend and that's why she married the new guy so fast. - I find myself excited by the prospect of meeting other people, but overwhelmed by it all and worried I won't find another spark. - I am very worried about her bday coming up in a month. Afraid it might set me back. - Feeling alright, but a little lonely because most of my friends are all in relationships. Four months later, I am scared but excited. Guess I'm still getting used to the change. You are a human being now in the journey of your personal healing. In fact, I find that you are doing great. Of course there will be times you feel you are getting nowhere, it's normal. Continue to make the right decision and do the right thing and you will get there, feeling free and happy. If the friends you have are really genuine ones, then I don't think they will blame you for sharing your emotions. What are true friends for after all? And if they don't, you are always more than welcome to share your feelings in this sub forum.
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