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fortyninethousand322 Established Member

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I'm in the gym 3 times a week. But TBF, I'm not single, so I'm not looking to mingle anyway.

 

Additionally, I do have "social" fitness activities that I'd be more open to talking to someone at. I do a twice weekly running group that is awesome for that, organized through meetup.com.

 

I would be significantly less creeped out by a guy hitting on me at a fitness group activity (like a meetup or even a class in the gym) than by a guy approaching me on the gym floor. If I'm on the elliptical, treadmill, or (god forbid) lying prone on the hamstring machine, please don't talk to me. It's probably the most dreadful, awkward time to be chatted up ever.

 

I don't think I would like being chatted up while on the hamstring machine either.

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haribogumsnickers Established Member

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Show the girl at the front desk your hard on since talking is too hard.

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anna121 Established Member

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I wanna bone the hotties.

 

 

I've looked at online dating profiles of girls in my area like Christian Mingle and Match.com girls in their mid 20s to early 30s I've only found maybe 8 or so that I'd consider hot and bangable. The others were either average, or ugly and fat or white trash. So really on online dating there are only a few in my area that are acceptable for me.

 

HANDS OFF, GIRLS!!!!

 

I saw him first.

 

:lmao:

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anna121 Established Member

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Eleven dates.

 

I wish I could like this, like, fifteen times.

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kaylan Established Member

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I'm in the gym 5-6 days a week. I don't pay 10 bucks a month just to have a cool card on my key chain. ;)

 

I talk to dudes all the time. Talking to women sends out a creeper vibe. Women know what's up. They know you talking to them about shoulder routine isn't you trying to compare notes...

Women talk to men for the same reason in the gym. I see how girls drool over my friend. Hell, one time I gave a girl a form tip so she wouldnt injure herself. I wasnt trying to hit on her or anything. Later shes checking me out, and then comes over all smiley to thank me again. We know why she did that.

 

As I said before, girls arent closed off to all men in the gym. Last night this check stayed in the gym an extra hour so the counter guy could give her a tour. So lets be real people.

I'm in the gym 3 times a week. But TBF, I'm not single, so I'm not looking to mingle anyway.

 

Additionally, I do have "social" fitness activities that I'd be more open to talking to someone at. I do a twice weekly running group that is awesome for that, organized through meetup.com.

 

I would be significantly less creeped out by a guy hitting on me at a fitness group activity (like a meetup or even a class in the gym) than by a guy approaching me on the gym floor. If I'm on the elliptical, treadmill, or (god forbid) lying prone on the hamstring machine, please don't talk to me. It's probably the most dreadful, awkward time to be chatted up ever.

Youre not single. Case and point.

 

The way I approach girls in the gym is to make it natural. I dont go too much out of my way to run into them.

 

The gym is a meat market sometimes to be honest. I see how some girls look at me. And Ive heard from a couple buddies how a lady or two like my butt. *shrug* its the gym.

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Girls don't go to the gym to get hit on. They go to work out. Leave them be. Do you want to be chatted up while maxing out on the bench press? I sure don't.

 

Meet women some other way. No one wants to be harassed at the gym, work, the bar, the grocery store, at the DMV, etc.

 

The gym has been pretty consistent for me to find women to date or just hook up with for years.

 

If you think talking to women is "harassing" them, well I don't know what to say other than maybe you shouldn't talk to women anywhere, including the bar, the grocery store, at the DMV, etc.

 

Women get horny. They get attracted to guys they see, even when they're at the gym. You might never be the guy banging the hot chick flaunting her tits and ass around the gym, but some other guy will. Or that sweet looking girl with a body just as nice, but doesn't show off.....some other guy will ask her out while you keep convincing yourself that she is off limits because........gym.

 

I get the vibe that a girl is interested and if I am interested as well, I go for it. Doesn't matter where. This is not harassment. This is two people that are interested in each other getting to know one another. Harassment happens when one of the people has no interest in the other and the other person keeps trying and won't take the hint to stop.

 

Trust me, if the girl is attracted to you she will not feel harassed that you dared talk to her at the gym. She will be thrilled and excited usually.

OpheliaSong Established Member

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PPS - Calm yourself with the creepy staring and boner stuff though. Thats not cool.

 

I think I just found my favorite ever sentence on a thread......did anyone else just die laughing imagining this? :lmao: Oh, kaylan...thank you for making me smile :)

 

OP I don't mind people talking to me at the gym as long as I am not in the middle of something or it is dark and they pounce on me in the parking lot which scares me.

OpheliaSong Established Member

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The problem is women think it's creepy when men approach them no matter where it is.

 

No, we don't. We think it is creepy when guys leer at us with boners though. :laugh:

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somedude81 Established Member

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No, we don't. We think it is creepy when guys leer at us with boners though. :laugh:

So it's OK if I have a boner without leering at you?

OpheliaSong Established Member

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So it's OK if I have a boner without leering at you?

 

Boners at your own discretion is completely up to you, :laugh: but if you just go around with them, people may just think you are hooked on Viagra.

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OP, make sure you wear a hat and sunglasses when you walk in after parking your white windowless minivan. Next, stare at girls while in a corner with a slight grin on your face, and enjoy the show as every girl in the gym flocks to you. I'm sure everyone else in this thread can attest to this too, it works like 95% of the time.

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Even though this thread is probably disingenuous, this is hilarious.

 

OP, make sure you wear a hat and sunglasses when you walk in after parking your white windowless minivan. Next, stare at girls while in a corner with a slight grin on your face, and enjoy the show as every girl in the gym flocks to you. I'm sure everyone else in this thread can attest to this too, it works like 95% of the time.

 

 

 

I drive a 2012 Mustang GT.

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I'd happily have the car and kick you to the kerb.....

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