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Women, in general, don't like to get hit on when they are somewhere for a specific purpose for which they are committed. Most don't like to be approached for conversation when they are trying to exercise. Many feel they would not want a guy they may be interested in them to have their first look at them in gym attire. They are entitled to their privacy...they are paying for it. Respect it.

 

There are a LOT of women who prefer female-only health clubs for those and other reasons.

 

No matter where you are, you need to use a keen sense of intuition and judgment to determine if it's the right time and place to approach a lady. If you are right and it's the right lady, you could meet the woman of your dreams. If you're wrong, all they can say is "kiss off!"

 

Once you get good at judgment, you'll be able to approach women anywhere. They are human and if they're single they're probably very receptive to a guy initiating a conversation in a courteous, rational and mature manner. You'd be surprised at the number of men who have no idea how to do that.

 

 

 

Where am I supposed to meet them at??

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I absolutely HATE being approached at the gym. I don't feel I am at my prettiest and I am extremely gross and sweaty. Plus, I am in the zone focused on burning calories. Even if it's a hot guy, I'm probably going to be very curt and short with him, because I'm not feeling my most confident and at my best.

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organizedchaos Established Member

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Where am I supposed to meet them at??

 

I'm sorry, you can't really be this clueless. Are you 10?

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You can't say that ALL women are there only to workout. That's unrealistic. There are some here and there who look for guys. You just have to have a good eye for the few who are.

 

I had an attractive lady initiate conversation with me, but I had to let her know was married.

 

You just have to feel out the situation. If she gives you looks from across the room every now and again, then when the opportunity arises casually talk to her in a nice way and maybe offer a suggestion on a proper workout technique that would help her. When she says thanks, leave it at that and continue on your business. Don't push the issue. After that if she's interested there's the possibility she'll talk to you first.

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You can try your luck at the gym. If a lady is interested in you, she will probably make eye contact with you a few times. You can smile back and maintain eye contact for just a little bit. You might get a smile in return. As for the counter girl - hard pass - she's on the clock and it's her job to be nice to everybody. You can try to engage her in conversation and even see if she will talk.

 

 

Realize that a lot of the women there are there to exercise, not to get hit on by guys. Why not just enjoy the sites in the least creepy way possible? (ie no boners!)

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I absolutely HATE being approached at the gym. I don't feel I am at my prettiest and I am extremely gross and sweaty. Plus, I am in the zone focused on burning calories. Even if it's a hot guy, I'm probably going to be very curt and short with him, because I'm not feeling my most confident and at my best.

 

 

 

I see a problem with that. Sure you don't think you look your best and all, but despite that the guy STILL think you're pretty! I mean that's a good thing a guy notices you despite not looking your best. You need to take that as a complement.

 

 

I only saw one hot girl tonight. I don't think she noticed me checking her out while I was on the treadmill. Is it a good think you think if a girl catches you looking at them?

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I see a problem with that. Sure you don't think you look your best and all, but despite that the guy STILL think you're pretty! I mean that's a good thing a guy notices you despite not looking your best. You need to take that as a complement.

 

 

I only saw one hot girl tonight. I don't think she noticed me checking her out while I was on the treadmill. Is it a good think you think if a girl catches you looking at them?

 

If she's into you.. of course it's a good thing. If she thinks you're just some perv scamming on girls at the gym.. Then no. Depends on how she looks at you I guess. And if she keeps looking at you. And if she smiles.

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My other beef with good looking women it seems today most seem to be gold diggers and only want a guy who has money.

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My other beef with good looking women it seems today most seem to be gold diggers and only want a guy who has money.

 

 

You forgot to add height into the mix. Us women are only interested in tall rich men who have a six-pack.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

:rolleyes:

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You forgot to add height into the mix. Us women are only interested in tall rich men who have a six-pack.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

:rolleyes:

 

You know what they say about the 666.

 

Six pack

Six figure bank account

Six inches

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You forgot to add height into the mix. Us women are only interested in tall rich men who have a six-pack.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

:rolleyes:

 

I wanna bone the hotties.

 

 

I've looked at online dating profiles of girls in my area like Christian Mingle and Match.com girls in their mid 20s to early 30s I've only found maybe 8 or so that I'd consider hot and bangable. The others were either average, or ugly and fat or white trash. So really on online dating there are only a few in my area that are acceptable for me.

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I wanna bone the hotties.

 

 

I've looked at online dating profiles of girls in my area like Christian Mingle and Match.com girls in their mid 20s to early 30s I've only found maybe 8 or so that I'd consider hot and bangable. The others were either average, or ugly and fat or white trash. So really on online dating there are only a few in my area that are acceptable for me.

 

Isn't that nice? :rolleyes:

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I absolutely HATE being approached at the gym. I don't feel I am at my prettiest and I am extremely gross and sweaty. Plus, I am in the zone focused on burning calories. Even if it's a hot guy, I'm probably going to be very curt and short with him, because I'm not feeling my most confident and at my best.

 

I agree.

 

I know I have great body and I probably turn them on, but I didn't come to gym to flirt with random blokes. I came to keep my great body. :p

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If you really like a girl that is working out next to you, just say a polite "hi" and move on to your own workout. That way you dont interrupt her, you make your presence known and if she likes you she can ask you for help or something. It's very annoying running on the treadmill and having someone asking you if he looks like Javier Bardem (true story).

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You know what they say about the 666.

 

Six pack

Six figure bank account

Six inches

Oh you beast, you..... :cool:

 

Originally Posted byLetsGoBlues

 

I wanna bone the hotties.

 

 

I've looked at online dating profiles of girls in my area like Christian Mingle and Match.com girls in their mid 20s to early 30s I've only found maybe 8 or so that I'd consider hot and bangable. The others were either average, or ugly and fat or white trash. So really on online dating there are only a few in my area that are acceptable for me.

 

So lets just re-cap here.

You're just looking to get your dick wet, but you are socially inept, creepy, sexually starved, desperate and totally, brainlessly tactless?

 

Great profile.

Gimme, gimme.....

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If you really want to meet someone in the gym, why not try one of the fitness classes, women here may be a bit more receptive to having a conversation, particularly before or after the class.

 

Make sure you choose one that tends to have a fairly even balance of men and women, such as body pump or boxing. Joining classes that tend to be used mainly by women such as the Zumba classes will just come of as creepy, as it will be obvious what you are there for. Also try and avoid the boners, these will not go down well in the gym.

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I wanna bone the hotties.

 

 

I've looked at online dating profiles of girls in my area like Christian Mingle and Match.com girls in their mid 20s to early 30s I've only found maybe 8 or so that I'd consider hot and bangable. The others were either average, or ugly and fat or white trash. So really on online dating there are only a few in my area that are acceptable for me.

 

Is racism allowed on this forum?

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First, be the guy that the "hot girls" will be attracted to. Then you can "approach" a girl anywhere, including the gym.

 

There are women that make it appearant they are interested in a guy and there are women that wonder why they only ever get approached by dudes they have zero attraction to. There are also wishy/washy women that try to hide their attraction but can't contain themselves and these require way too much effort because you'll usually need to jump through hoops for them.

 

When I notice a girl is interested and I find her to be attractive, I just acknowledge her (smile at her, hold her gaze, whatever was appropriate) and see what she does. When I approach, it's no surprise and I am not putting her on the spot...usually. Polite, non-invasive conversation. Suggest we should go out and ask for her phone number. Call later, talk and set up a date. I try to get everything rolling ASAP. There is no trick to this, except the first sentence I guess.

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I wanna bone the hotties.

 

 

I've looked at online dating profiles of girls in my area like Christian Mingle and Match.com girls in their mid 20s to early 30s I've only found maybe 8 or so that I'd consider hot and bangable. The others were either average, or ugly and fat or white trash. So really on online dating there are only a few in my area that are acceptable for me.

 

 

 

You haven't lived enough if all you want to do is 'bone the hotties'. A woman's looks have negligible impact on how great sex is with a woman. How miserable in life you will be if that's your goal.

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One of these two lines are proven winners:

 

1.) I've got something for you to lift.

 

2.) Exercising is one way to work up a sweat. Let me know if you wanna try another.

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One of these two lines are proven winners:

 

1.) I've got something for you to lift.

 

2.) Exercising is one way to work up a sweat. Let me know if you wanna try another.

 

You forgot this line:

 

- Instead of pumping iron, I wanna pump you

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Sand Man Dan Established Member

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Is racism allowed on this forum?

 

Dude just stop. Not being attracted outside your race is not racist.

MrCastle Established Member

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Dude just stop. Not being attracted outside your race is not racist.

 

Haha. Maybe it's not racist. But potentially racish.

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Haha. Maybe it's not racist. But potentially racish.

 

If anything, it's close minded

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If you really want to meet someone in the gym, why not try one of the fitness classes, women here may be a bit more receptive to having a conversation, particularly before or after the class.

 

Make sure you choose one that tends to have a fairly even balance of men and women, such as body pump or boxing. Joining classes that tend to be used mainly by women such as the Zumba classes will just come of as creepy, as it will be obvious what you are there for.

My mom actually suggested I start going to Zumba classes because it's all women ;)

 

Frankly, it's a ridiculous thought that a man can't go to a gym class because it's primarily women.

 

It's not like I'm trying to crash a Lamaze class.

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