How to talk to hot girls at the gym

[LetsGoBlues]

I have nowhere else to see girls since I just graduated college and don't go to school now.

 

 

I see a lot of hot ones at my gym. One thing I noticed is girls at the gym don't really talk to anyone and pretty much keep to themselves unless they're with a girlfriend of theirs.

 

 

But guys tend to talk to other guys more often for example. Like there are a few guys I talk with on a regular basis and guys tend to be more sociable with each other at the gym while girls don't talk to anyone.

 

 

Why is it women at the gym keep to themselves? They don't even talk to other women very much.

 

 

So how do yall talk to females at the gym without getting slapped or punched in the jaw?

 

 

Also there is this SUPER hot girl who works at the front desk in the gym. She's very hot. I don't get to talk to her though except she usually says "hi" and "bye" when you leave the gym. I get distracted by her when I workout and get a hard on.

[TaraMaiden]

I have nowhere else to see girls since I just graduated college and don't go to school now.

 

 

I see a lot of hot ones at my gym. One thing I noticed is girls at the gym don't really talk to anyone and pretty much keep to themselves unless they're with a girlfriend of theirs.

 

 

But guys tend to talk to other guys more often for example. Like there are a few guys I talk with on a regular basis and guys tend to be more sociable with each other at the gym while girls don't talk to anyone.

 

 

Why is it women at the gym keep to themselves? They don't even talk to other women very much.

 

 

So how do yall talk to females at the gym without getting slapped or punched in the jaw?

 

 

Also there is this SUPER hot girl who works at the front desk in the gym. She's very hot. I don't get to talk to her though except she usually says "hi" and "bye" when you leave the gym. I get distracted by her when I workout and get a hard on.

 

The reason girls keep themselves to themselves at the gym is - frankly - because of guys like you.

 

They're either already in a relationship, and don't want to fend you off, or, as they are usually dressed in a skimpier, more figure-hugging outfit, sweating, keeping fit, toned and healthy, they know that guys don't want to approach them for intellectual psychologically-challenging discussions.

 

They want to get into their underwear.

 

So they close down, and prevent the barrier from being opened.

 

They're not there to pick up. They're there to keep fit, toned and healthy.

 

OK?

 

[Sand Man Dan]

That, and you can always tell when a girl is in the gym for reasons other than fitness.

[LetsGoBlues]

The reason girls keep themselves to themselves at the gym is - frankly - because of guys like you.

 

They're either already in a relationship, and don't want to fend you off, or, as they are usually dressed in a skimpier, more figure-hugging outfit, sweating, keeping fit, toned and healthy, they know that guys don't want to approach them for intellectual psychologically-challenging discussions.

 

They want to get into their underwear.

 

So they close down, and prevent the barrier from being opened.

 

They're not there to pick up. They're there to keep fit, toned and healthy.

 

OK?

 

 

 

Then how do we break through that barrier they put up?

[TaraMaiden]

YOU

 

DON'T.

 

The reason they exclude people and don't enter into socialising, is BECAUSE THEY DON'T WANT TO.

 

leave well alone, and quit trying.

 

And you getting a hard-on during your exercise session is just poor control and lack of personal boundaries.

Not cool, bud.

 

maybe you need to steer clear of the place, if you can't control your urges.

A guy with raging hormones makes it perfectly clear he needs physical action, and that's really unattractive.

 

seriously.

[Tony T]

Women, in general, don't like to get hit on when they are somewhere for a specific purpose for which they are committed. Most don't like to be approached for conversation when they are trying to exercise. Many feel they would not want a guy they may be interested in them to have their first look at them in gym attire. They are entitled to their privacy...they are paying for it. Respect it.

 

There are a LOT of women who prefer female-only health clubs for those and other reasons.

 

No matter where you are, you need to use a keen sense of intuition and judgment to determine if it's the right time and place to approach a lady. If you are right and it's the right lady, you could meet the woman of your dreams. If you're wrong, all they can say is "kiss off!"

 

Once you get good at judgment, you'll be able to approach women anywhere. They are human and if they're single they're probably very receptive to a guy initiating a conversation in a courteous, rational and mature manner. You'd be surprised at the number of men who have no idea how to do that.

[LetsGoBlues]

What about the hot girl who works at the counter?

 

 

Also where do these hot girls working out at the gym meet guys then?

[TaraMaiden]

Ask the counter-girl for a date. She can only say yes or no.

 

Where to meet girls?

At a bar, club, or anywhere where you don't come over as a creep and make them feel vulnerable.

[LetsGoBlues]

Women, in general, don't like to get hit on when they are somewhere for a specific purpose for which they are committed. Most don't like to be approached for conversation when they are trying to exercise. Many feel they would not want a guy they may be interested in them to have their first look at them in gym attire. They are entitled to their privacy...they are paying for it. Respect it.

 

There are a LOT of women who prefer female-only health clubs for those and other reasons.

 

No matter where you are, you need to use a keen sense of intuition and judgment to determine if it's the right time and place to approach a lady. If you are right and it's the right lady, you could meet the woman of your dreams. If you're wrong, all they can say is "kiss off!"

 

Once you get good at judgment, you'll be able to approach women anywhere. They are human and if they're single they're probably very receptive to a guy initiating a conversation in a courteous, rational and mature manner. You'd be surprised at the number of men who have no idea how to do that.

 

 

Where else can I go? I don't like bars.

[TaraMaiden]

What's your hurry, exactly....?

[Sand Man Dan]

What's your hurry, exactly....?

 

Awww come on now...

[TaraMaiden]

yeah I know... But the OP is not making it exactly sound as if he's looking for a 'deep and meaningful' relationship. He just wants a phukk....

 

And frankly, that's shallow.

 

Sorry, but it is.

[CrystalCastles]

Why is it women at the gym keep to themselves? They don't even talk to other women very much.

 

Maybe because they're actually trying to get the most out of their workout?

 

When I go to the gym, I never talk to anyone and I get really annoyed when some meathead comes over and starts hitting on me. I'm not at the gym to get a boyfriend, I'm at the gym to get a good body.

[Sand Man Dan]

yeah I know... But the OP is not making it exactly sound as if he's looking for a 'deep and meaningful' relationship. He just wants a phukk....

 

And frankly, that's shallow.

 

Sorry, but it is.

 

He just sounds awkwardly creepy and completely socially inept. (Sorry op) he probably needs legit advice

 

Really Tara, how often can you tell a future heartbreaker from a true gentleman? They always wear the same outside until its too late.

[TaraMaiden]

You can't. But you can try to guide the inept, the inexperienced and the naive in the right direction so that they lean more towards the 'Gentleman' and less towards the 'future heartbreaker'..... No?

[StanMusial]

I have nowhere else to see girls since I just graduated college and don't go to school now.

 

 

I see a lot of hot ones at my gym. One thing I noticed is girls at the gym don't really talk to anyone and pretty much keep to themselves unless they're with a girlfriend of theirs.

 

 

But guys tend to talk to other guys more often for example. Like there are a few guys I talk with on a regular basis and guys tend to be more sociable with each other at the gym while girls don't talk to anyone.

 

 

Why is it women at the gym keep to themselves? They don't even talk to other women very much.

 

 

So how do yall talk to females at the gym without getting slapped or punched in the jaw?

 

 

Also there is this SUPER hot girl who works at the front desk in the gym. She's very hot. I don't get to talk to her though except she usually says "hi" and "bye" when you leave the gym. I get distracted by her when I workout and get a hard on.

 

LOL. Damn. Might want to work on some self control before you try to approach a girl at the gym or anywhere.

[Trnamakesnse]

Some people just want that too sometimes. Makes it easier between deep meaningful relationships if you get some physical needs met. I've heard anyway never had the opportunity myself.

[anne1707]

LOL. Damn. Might want to work on some self control before you try to approach a girl at the gym or anywhere.

 

I suppose it is one way of getting a cardiovascular workout

[LetsGoBlues]

Ask the counter-girl for a date. She can only say yes or no.

 

Where to meet girls?

At a bar, club, or anywhere where you don't come over as a creep and make them feel vulnerable.

 

We don't even know each others names. That would be creepy like that.

[LetsGoBlues]

Also I'm 30 but look really young and people think I'm in my early 20s.

 

 

Should I expect most girls in their 30s to look like Kate Middleton?

[Keenly]

This thread reminds me of the song.

 

 

 

 

"Wow. Shes so hot. I want to tell her how hot she is but she'll think I'm sexist.

She's so hot she's making me sexist. Bitch. "

[f1asr88]

I met my former girlfriend at the gym, so it is possible to pull it off.

She was very unusually pretty, and I thought to myself after seeing her a few times that I really had to give it a shot.

So I started off small, just making eye contact and smiling, then gradually progressed to saying hi, asking about her workout etc, and took it from there.

It was actually the first time I had ever tried to talk to a girl with romantic intentions, at the ripe old age of 21! I was nervous as anything, I was shaking, my voice was trembling.

But if one in particular catches your eye, give talking to them a shot, just try and get to know them a little without being too forward and making it feel like you're indiscriminately after only one thing from them.

[ae86drift]

JUST BE YOUR SELF, come up to her and say "hey I think you look nice. I wanted to get to know you, introduce your self and shake her hand, small conversation get to know her, make sure she single, at the end ask for her number, so what is your number?

[ae86drift]

and no cheesy pick up line, girls think your lame lol

[Sand Man Dan]

We don't even know each others names. That would be creepy like that.

 

Dude, you not being creepy went out the window when you got a boner at the gym