billselfs Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 my girlfriend called me today and we talked and I reminded her she is suppose to look at an apartment with me on Tuesday.i was like we will go around 430 and she said "well i dont know if i have plans yet" I said "well you made plans wih me what other plans could you have" she said "well your not the only person i can make plans with " i got a bit clingy there,was i wrong to? i mean she has already agreed to go with meand the way she made it sound, she wasn't sure if she was going with me
veggirl Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 Um no you didn't sound clingy. She had plans with you and is now going back on that. She is totally rude. You do seem very insecure, why would you think YOU were in the wrong here? 1
deathandtaxes Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 You both sound out of line. Her initial response wasn't ideal. Perhaps she doesn't really want to look at apartments with you? Is it an apartment for you? Her? You two living together? Your response to her response comes across as petulant. So she responded in kind. It wasn't clingy. You both could have handled it better.
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