Girl at chiro office asked if I missed her, adds me on LinkedIN, now MIA!

[MissingMyHubby]

so I have been going to the chiropractor for a year, and there are a few girl helpers that work there. one of the girls I noticed was pretty cute and reminded me of my ex. for the last few months when I would go (1x wk) she would be putting the pads on me and we would make small talk for a few minutes. as I got to know her she made it known she was single I think by mentioning her ex once. she also mentioned needing to get to a gym so I told her mine was $10 a month and for many weeks she said she would sign up but never did. so 3 weeks ago she quit and I was a little disappointed but quickly forgot about her.

 

then 2 days ago her co worker comes up to me and says "hey ***** wants to know if you miss her." ( both coworkers still talk, tho the one quit). I said of course. I began thinking how can I use this opportunity to get in contact with her.

 

so I ask a coworker (whos also friendly with me but has a boyfriend) if she was on FB. she said yes but hard to find (prob high privacy etc) so she said let's have a race to see who can add the other one first. within 5 minutes she found me.

 

after saying she won, I was like "hey, i cant find **** on FB, is she on it?" the co worker informed me she wasn't. so as I was leaving the office the coworker I think was texting her back and forth and amidst all this she says "***** as a LinkedIn and I think she added you."

 

I take this as another good sign. I wait 8 hours before I accept and then send her a message basically saying " it's just not the same at the office, did u end up joining a gym, hope your modelling is going well, ( she's a parts model), and we should get a drink sometime in ur town."

 

I told the coworker the next day that I sent her a message just so co worker would I know about it and maybe those two would talk. but it's been two days and I haven't heard back. the coworker said back a msg saying "good luck getting her to go out she spends most days in bed, but I would be down for going out."

 

so now my mind is racing like maybe I got let down easy through the co worker when she stated she never leaves her house. both of these girls know I have a girlfriend (but not serious). so why go through all this effort? any thoughts?

[melodymatters]

If you call her your girlfriend, it's serious enough to make me not want to date you. In fact I would think you were a scumbag. Or maybe they just genuinely liked you as a person and thought you would be a fun friend, but no more than that.

 

Also, if you are a guy, why is your name MissingMyHubby ?

[MissingMyHubby]

Yes she knows we are not serious, we have only been together a short while

 

I was just more curious as to why this girl of interest would go thru the effort of asking her coworker to ask me if I missed her, then adding me on LinkedIN, only to not respond to my message which was light and asking to hang out (and not one on one, but her and the coworker, (coworker has a guy)).

 

Perhaps shes either put off a have a gf, tho doesnt know details on it, or simply wanted attention.

[MissingMyHubby]

well...unfortunately, she didnt respond even though i can "see" she read it.

 

guess i was played by both