andy1orlast Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 So me and my ex girlfriend dated for a little over a year. Things were great. We practically spent every day together. We always talk about everything and got along. She broke up with me out of the blue and it tore me apart. She said she didn't love me anymore and wanted to date other people.I thought my life was over but I got help from friends and counselors. I still have no idea what went wrong and its been almost a year. I think know that we both thought that we would still be a part of each others life no matter what. I tried not to talk to her after the breakup. Three months after the breakup, she comes over randomly and says she misses me. This throws me back into day one of the breakup. Last night, a group of mutual friends wanted everyone to hang out. She was going to be there but I though I was going to be fine. It was overall pretty awkwark so I didn't talk to very much through the night. Now I can't get her out of my mind. A big part of me still misses her. What do I do? What can I do? I
mantlefan Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 Avoid her at all costs. She is bad news. At best, she has no idea what she wants and will only hurt you more. At worst, she wants to boost her ego by seeing that she still has power over you. There's not a lot of things that people really deserve in this world. But everyone deserves better than being strung along by somebody who doesn't want them. Cut her out of your life as much as possible. Even if you still love her, realize she is a tumor.
LadyM Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 Of course a big part of you still misses her and you can't get her out of your mind. It sure didn't help when you had to socialize in a big group last night. And it doesn't help when she throws you the "I miss you" breadcrumb. If it were me, I would rather stay at home than go out in a social group with her. It was painful for you to be out last night and you didn't enjoy yourself anyway. It will always set you way back until you are over her, or better yet, when you find yourself a new girl.
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