nicksball Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 ok so the girl im dating now is the first girl I have slept with. she has slept with multiple guys. I'm not going to lie, I am very paranoid. I always worry I'll be really bad or that I'm not lasting long enough is there any way i can gain more confidence
soccerrprp Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 have more sex and MOST importantly, hope you have an understanding and patient gf that will help you. the other thing is the more you stress/worry about it, the more likely you will fail to perform. try not to think too much about it and let things happen naturally while in bed and communicate with your gf. 1
d0nnivain Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 Like anything else in life, you gain more confidence by doing things over & over again. Talk to your GF. Do not ask her about the other guys but ask her what she likes.
ChessPieceFace Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 You might get "performance anxiety" ... personally I'd just be honest with her about your nervousness. It's not like it's a permanent condition, a caring partner would be understanding? But then I tend to be too honest and ruin things due to honesty so what do I know.
acrosstheuniverse Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 Have lots and lots of sex hopefully she's a girl that would be understanding if you were too quick or couldn't get it up, I know whenever I've been with a guy and that's happened I haven't been at all bothered, I understand that people aren't machines and our bodies don't always respond in the way we want them to. If she knows you're less experienced than her maybe that would ease your concerns. But seriously, just have lots of sex. It's all about the chemistry anyway. I've had better sex with someone who has had five partners than someone who's had 80.
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