coolbreeze Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 Finally free...(love it!). I apologize for taking the thread elsewhere. but yes, I'm a dumper but for good reasons. I could have stayed with an arrogant, stubborn alcoholic who lives in complete denial. I really feel it was best to leave, I sent a txt saying I would go w him and seek counseling. No response. Interestingly I find most AA men are in a stuck mode. There's no reinventing or improving. They dont want to go drs. No working out.. poor eating.. just smoking, drinking and getting high..They tend to latch on to women who can provide for them. As I sit here, I remember him saying over and over you gonna make lots n lots of $$..Things are coming into focus now. Finallly free your input was invaluable. Selfish only loves self. Incapable of real love, always has to be a catch. Truth b told, he had nothing going for him at all but child support payments, no skills, and lots of ignorance. I really was desperate and lonely, I was an easy hook. The one he's with now is pathetically desperate and the whole town knows it. Oh he's gonna burn a whole in those pockets.
coolbreeze Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 I think I'm overwhelmed finally being able to get my thoughts out of my system, my thoughts are here, there and everywhere. I had mentioned that AA men don't reinvent themselves and stay stuck. Please let me correct that. I, myself am a AA female. This does by no means mean all. This has only been the ones I've dealt with. Many are wonderful I'm sure and got it all together, my experiences just have been with the losers, users n abusers..
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