Kat_luv Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 We've been together for 3 months, he asked me to go steady with him 2 months ago but I wasn't ready and the dude doesn't even know my last name. The only thing he got right was my last name initial. He didnt even spell out my first name right like it's not that hard. His full name is just as if not "complex" and I spelled it out correctly in 10 sec. I'm kinda offended like the da fuq? Or should this not bother me. It's kind of embarrassing, makes me feel like someone he just met for a few times then dropped.
TaraMaiden Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 what....? I'm sorry, this just sounds completely idiotic.... 5
soccerrprp Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 How can this be? After all this time and he doesn't know your last name? I've known the last name of all the ladies I've dated by the end of the first date or even before. It sounds to me that you bf is not too attentive or interested in details of importance. 1
MidwestUSA Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 Is he literate? Yea, this would bother me. As in, serious, probable deal breaker.
Leigh 87 Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 How can this be? After all this time and he doesn't know your last name? I've known the last name of all the ladies I've dated by the end of the first date or even before. It sounds to me that you bf is not too attentive or interested in details of importance. My boyfriend had a brain injury when he was 19; he has a shocking short term memory. Yet he remembered me last name from date one. The men who didn't care were the ones who never memorized (or even asked me) about my last name. I mean sheesh. Even my bone head ex knew my last name by 3 months. It's totally not the norm amongst men to forget OR not even ask about surnames WHEN the man is really interested in a girl. Just a correlation; men who are nuts about you don't normally tend to forget their woman's last name. Where as the men who are careless AND/OR not that into the relationship forget last names FAR more often than the men who are crazy about a girl. Of course, this guy could just be a thoughtless or self absorbed person who DOES genuinely like you.
Eau Claire Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 We've been together for 3 months, he asked me to go steady with him 2 months ago but I wasn't ready and the dude doesn't even know my last name. The only thing he got right was my last name initial. He didnt even spell out my first name right like it's not that hard. His full name is just as if not "complex" and I spelled it out correctly in 10 sec. I'm kinda offended like the da fuq? Or should this not bother me. It's kind of embarrassing, makes me feel like someone he just met for a few times then dropped. Together for three months? Why? Didn't you previously post about him not driving and you were not all that interested in him? Why is this guy even an issue for you? You don't seem to like him...you don't respect him...how exactly is it you are 'together'?
mammasita Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 Considering his parents spoon feed him and probably wipe his ass after he takes a $hit, I'm not surprised that he doesn't know your last name nor how to spell your first. I'm shocked that you're surprised by this.
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