HECKLER74 Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 Ok so I met this girl via a dating site, we live 2 1/2 hours from each other but I didn't mind and neither did she. We had our first date things went well from that day onwards we talked everyday. We planned our next date but she had to cancel, due to work commitments. I thought maybe she wasn't keen so I told her if she didn't want to see me again it was ok but she insisted she did want to see me. I am a shift worker so I could not see her over the next month and a half but we continued to talk everday. I offered to come see her for a quick visit but she was busy so she suggested she would come and see me, staying at my place but nothing set in stone. Just after xmass on the 26th she said she'll come and see me on the 2nd Jan staying at my place again I told her she did not have to if she did not want to but she insisted she wanted to see me. We continued texting everyday then the day before she was due to come and visit I messaged her to ask what time she would be coming up. She didn't reply to 11.30pm that night she said she had been thinking about it and would not be coming to visit. Furthermore she had met someone (Prior to even arranging to come and see me) and was sorry. I asked her why she had strung me along so long she claimed she didn't know how I felt and was sorry and that she only ever saw me as a friend and assumed I felt the same. I told her obviously I was upset but what she had done and would not stay in contact. I deleted her from FB and she blocked me a few days later. I am totaly confused by this would love some advice???
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