pickflicker Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 (edited) I know that I have to learn how to control my emotions. But my experiences have shaped who I am and how I see the world. If everyone in your past has slapped you in the face, you will expect the next person to do the same so you are going to want to put your hand up and protect yourself. I was nothing but nice, kind and honest to this guy! I never gave him any problems or a bitch tude. If he was so hurt or an upstanding guy he wouldnt of had to resort to the disappearing act. The disappearing act is weak and immature way out. C'mon its like the final LOSER move you can do. All he had to do was tell me whatever he needed to tell me....if it was really that I was hot and cold, i get it, then why not address it ? You know why? Because he doesnt have the emotional capacity to do it. Just another emotional retard I met that cant act like a normal human being. It is my fault because I ALWAYS CHOOSE THE RETARDS, the emotionally handicap people to engage in relationships, fwb's, whatever and this is what I get. You basically told him you would give him nothing, yet expect him to just dance to your tune. If a guy said this to me, I'd disappear too. You didn't want a relationship, therefore, your forfeit access to relationship niceties, like a polite break up. If you have to tell someone you're dating that you got really hurt the last time and you're still carrying it, you're not ready to date. You should be able to go in having only non-committal, indifferent things to say about an ex. Edited January 12, 2014 by pickflicker 1
Fufu Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 Have a healthy emotional well being first before you start to think about dating and let alone having a relationship.
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