Vero Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 So there's this girl at my high school that I occasionally cross by in the hallways.I don't say "hi" to her when I do see her because it seems that it may come off as kind of strange to her. She was in my Biology class last year, but other than that we've never had a class together. We already know each other but we pretty much don't talk at all. However, I do know that she is an athletic trainer because when I go into the training room I see her helping out athletes. I usually see her sitting around with some of the other track members before practice starts and I really want to get her. I wanted to go for the straight forward approach where I tell her how I feel about her and start a conversation, but I don't know how to do this 1) without making it awkward since we already vaguely know each other and I can't introduce myself again 2) haven't said anything to her in a while, and 3) I don't see her alone very often. How can I approach her with these circumstances? Thanks
d0nnivain Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 Don't make any declarations. They are always very awkward & never well received. the first thing you say to any girl should never be "I like you" or worse "I love you". By virtue of the fact that you are talking to them, most girls have figured out that there is some level of interest. No need to point it out. Start by saying hello to her in the hall. Next say hi in the training room. Can you ask her to help you with your training? Are you friends with her on social media? If not, add her. Work up to talking about school stuff . . .how's the team doing? What's your favorite class etc. Perhaps ask her to study with you or to a school dance.
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