JesRabbit Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 If you read my previous posts, you would know that I WAS thinking of giving my ex another try, but I changed my mind and decided to move on. Then, he contacted me a few days ago to tell me some shocking news: When me and my ex started messing around, I had gotten him tested for all STDs and I did the same and we both were in the clear. The last time he was tested was a week before Christmas and again, he was in the clear and he showed me proof through Skype. When we had gotten back together in October, his child's mother started dating a new guy and they recently had broken up a week ago due to an issue I will discuss below. My ex told me that this new guy his child's mother was dating had confessed to her that he passed on HIV to her and she had gotten tested and she tested positive. At this moment, my heart sank because the reason of me breaking up with him was because I felt like he still loved his child's mother and was still seeing her. Mind you: She started seeing this new guy in October when me and my ex had gotten back together. I know for a fact he didn't sleep with her during that time because we spent a month together in the city I live in now. He later went back home after me calling it off with him and that was the last time I had seen and slept with him. I'm still going to get tested regardless, but it seems if she started sleeping with this guy in October it is a chance I dodged a bullet. I'm hoping for the best for myself. I feel like if I did come out okay, I'm sad for him because if only he had stick with me and let her go like he should have, he nor me would be going through this testing mess. I just wanted to share my experience and I hope I did dodge a bullet, I have an appointment to get tested next week and I will update. Any thoughts are appreciated!
Gigsyc Posted January 11, 2014 Posted January 11, 2014 You might like this song called "I dodged A Bullet" by Full Tonne Kidd. Full Tonne Kidd Very appropriate.
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