backatone Posted January 10, 2005 Posted January 10, 2005 Well, I went to an NBA game tonight at the local arena and my ex happen to be working. I was reluctant to go first of all, because I did not want to see her and start at square one again. So sure enough, my buddy that invited me to the game has seats right by her section. I go to the restroom and guess who is there? She was NOT waiting for me or anything, she was just getting off actually. So, we said hi. She ask for a hug and I kept it short and was on my way. It was almost surreal though. I really didnt even remember the converstaion till I got back home. I was trying to judge her actions but, other then asking for a hug she seemed pretty level headed. Hard to read. I said, I need to go and she was kinda like okkkkkkkkk. So, now what do I do. I really dont want to call her. She ask for this break and it has been about one week since she last contacted me via email. But honestly, if she does not contact me in some shape or form, im gonna be pissed. But, I know that is what I should expect. I would love to call her and say it was nice to see you, but I cant justify it. She is the dumper.......and she wanted the break.........there should be no reason that I need to contact her now, correct?? I had a feeling I was going to see her, and the fact that I seen her was actually pretty rare. But, I feel in-different. Hard to explain. What do I do from here?
Dion Posted January 10, 2005 Posted January 10, 2005 It seems youve already sort of put the emotional stress behind the break up behind you so why not contact her while reserving this indifference. It can't really hurt.
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