Author Thegreatestthing Posted January 13, 2014 Author Posted January 13, 2014 I'm really not bitchy at all,I only get like that when my defences are up.truth. Defence mechanisms.
Zahara Posted January 13, 2014 Posted January 13, 2014 I'm really not bitchy at all,I only get like that when my defences are up.truth. Defence mechanisms. Maybe it's time for you to figure out why you depend on these defense mechanisms. Stay away from dating until you get emotionally smarter and stronger. See a counselor. Maybe they can get you to find some insight into what is triggering you to do what you do. Until you do that, it would be unwise to rope people in and hurt them because you can't figure why you behave the way you do. Sabotaging comes from a place of insecurity and fear. You need to work on that.
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