Jesseklaver Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 Hi guys, Need advice. My ex and I broke up since we both thought our marriage wouldn't succeed. We knew eacht other for 5 years. I still stand behind our decision however I'm hurt real bad. After two weeks of NC she called me three times yesterday. I did not pick up because I'm afraid going back to day 1 of NC where the pain was almost unbearable. However, I do respect and love her and want to treat her as a human being. Should I call back? Please share with me your perspective. Thanks.
Nyclovin Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 Change your number , disappear , be resolute
LadyM Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 I know everyone here preaches NC, but I think in this case you should call her back. I would be beyond devastated if I man I loved for five years would not call me back after being BU for only two weeks. Maybe it won't set you back as much as you think. Maybe you can talk with her and then gently explain why you need NC from this day forward. I think it's the humane thing to do. But that's just me. 1
Arabella Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 Yeah, I don't know about NC in this case. You two were together for five years and broken up for two weeks... call her back and talk. It could be a game-changer or it could be nothing at all... but this early on, it's worth listening to her. 1
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