nighthood Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 I'm 19 and I dunno how to say I like girls in my age But also I'm very attracted to those who r around 30 and 40. I have a question are these women attacted to younger boys?
Philosoraptor Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 I'm 19 and I dunno how to say I like girls in my age But also I'm very attracted to those who r around 30 and 40. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to older women. I have a question are these women attacted to younger boys? Yes, some are. 1
mammasita Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 Personally, I would never take a 19 year old seriously. I'm 38, You could be my son *shudder*. 3
Ninjainpajamas Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 It was a bit weird to me at that age especially if she was around the late 30's or 40's, for some reason I've always had much older women than I interested in me, but I've always liked older women I just wasn't sure if they were really interested even though they were consistently flirtatious and throwing out sexual innuendos left and right, it just didn't seem like it was really happening and I wasn't interested in most...never faulted them for it but it did "shock" me a bit, just sometimes it creeped me a bit out in the way they flirted or engaged me like without any hesitation or filter, very crude at times...I guess it was just too forward at times or they might be much much older than I which was odd in itself. I'm in my 30s now, so I'm seen as a "man" now...they are not quite so bold as they were when I was in my teens or 20's but can still be quite aggressive which is fine for me now, doesn't phase or bother me...but in the 20's they kind of look at you like a boy-toy or piece of meat *covers nipples*...I would suggest you date older women, you'll learn a lot and they're way more put together in what they're doing and what they want...where as young women are still living in that "Am I his special everything? am i really the most amazing girl he's ever been with? does he mean it?" Of course he doesn't damn mean it! what's wrong with you!. Anyway it's a good experience, I tell young guys there's not even any point to dating around your age, you haven't learned a thing about women yet...and once you're an old man you'll be like the rest of the pervs going for the younger booty more than likely yourself...it ain't right, but people seem not to mind and buy into the whole "I'm mature for my age" BS...older people know what they're doing when they're fishing for young bucks...it's no mystery, it's about fun and the sex...it's not like dating someone your own age. But yes, if you're attracted and interested just go and do it...just don't make any babies and if she starts doing too much for you and centering her life around you too much get out of it, you're too damn young...nothings for free, remember that. 3
Sand Man Dan Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 As a strapping young 22 year old that is highly attracted to women in their 30s (and 40s sometimes! ) I find that I get a lot of looks. For some reason I don't click with girls my age at all. So maybe that's a factor as well.
nescafe1982 Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 I'm 31. I have a hard time seeing a 18-25 year old man as a "man" as opposed to a "boy." Which is probably a good thing for me, because I teach at a university. That would get awkward. But to address your questions: -Yes, it's normal to be attracted to women who are 10 years older.. especially thirty-somethings. They are at their prime and it's hot. -And yes, even though I'm not attracted to men your age, I know a lot of thirty-something women who love younger guys. Including one who pretty much dates 22 year olds exclusively.
regine_phalange Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 I'm 26 and I would gladly date someone 20-25. 1
GemmaUK Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 I'm 44..soon to be 45 and the most approaches I get in real life (not OLD) are from 25-32 year olds - generally they put me at about 32 (I add 5 years to that in that they are being polite - so 38 - quite a compliment! ). I prefer to date around my own age - although I am starting to think maybe of looking for someone a bit younger..not a lot, just a bit. Some may be attracted to you. You would have to ask I guess. 1
MrNate 2.0 Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 I'm 19 and I dunno how to say I like girls in my age But also I'm very attracted to those who r around 30 and 40. I have a question are these women attacted to younger boys? I'm in upper 20s and there are some beautiful, beautiful women in their 30's. You can just see how their life experience has molded them so far. Mmm.. There's nothing wrong with a more mature taste. 2
Author nighthood Posted January 10, 2014 Author Posted January 10, 2014 Yeah well .I know the "nothing serious "thing .I can go through it just for fun Thanks:-) .
Author nighthood Posted January 10, 2014 Author Posted January 10, 2014 Guys thanks a lot. But the thing is the flirting and the other stuff like how to gain attention ofem etc. U know I had a lot experience in bed for a 19 yr old boy. But I wanna know what's the difference what they want .or how do they wanna be treated. Just give me some tips. And sorry for the english
BlametheIrish Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 I'm 19 and I dunno how to say I like girls in my age But also I'm very attracted to those who r around 30 and 40. I have a question are these women attacted to younger boys? I'll be 30 in about 6 months myself. I've personally never been into younger guys but I know lenough women in the late 20's to.mid 30's that would love some fun with a young energetic stud. Go for it 1
nescafe1982 Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 Guys thanks a lot. But the thing is the flirting and the other stuff like how to gain attention ofem etc. U know I had a lot experience in bed for a 19 yr old boy. But I wanna know what's the difference what they want .or how do they wanna be treated. Just give me some tips. And sorry for the english I mean, it's hard to say what will work for all women... because women aren't an aggregate group. But generally, women over 30 are not going to go for cheap lines or game-playing. Younger women will fall for that stuff sometimes, but and older woman will probably respond better to a direct approach. At least, I would. 1
rosedl Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 Well, I can tell you that you are not alone. I have been on dating sites and I have received a lot of interest from men in their early to mid twenties. Cougars are all the rage, apparently. But, I am not interested in a guy that young. Actually, with my romantic history, I don't know if I am interested in guys any age any more. I am exhausted from it.
Author nighthood Posted January 10, 2014 Author Posted January 10, 2014 But, I am not interested in a guy that young. Actually, with my romantic history, I don't know if I am interested in guys any age any more. I am exhausted from it. Well I'm sorry for ur history but not all guys are the same:-)
Grumpybutfun Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 My teens and early twenties were like wonderment, confusion and fascination...so naturally I was attractive to older women who wanted to educate me in the ways of seduction and arousal. Eye contact, sexy grins and winks were about the only things I used to get attention from those women. They were a welcome departure from those girls who wanted me to love them forever when I barely knew who I was or what I wanted in life. Be transparent in what you are willing to give older ladies as with any other lovely woman you pursue. If it is only about sex, then let them know that early on. If you are pursuing them for a relationship, let them know upfront. Communication is your greatest asset with women. Best, Grumps 1
Author nighthood Posted January 10, 2014 Author Posted January 10, 2014 My teens and early twenties were like wonderment, confusion and fascination...so naturally I was attractive to older women who wanted to educate me in the ways of seduction and arousal. Eye contact, sexy grins and winks were about the only things I used to get attention from those women. They were a welcome departure from those girls who wanted me to love them forever when I barely knew who I was or what I wanted in life. Be transparent in what you are willing to give older ladies as with any other lovely woman you pursue. If it is only about sex, then let them know that early on. If you are pursuing them for a relationship, let them know upfront. Communication is your greatest asset with women. Best, Grumps I'll keep it in mind thanks.:-)
jm2013 Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 I remember my younger twenties I came close to banging a 40 something year old woman. I think I flattered her more than anything. She looked beautiful and I thought she was in her early 30s. She told me that she's got kids my age lol.. I basically let it be known though it was pure sexual. I think it turned her on that such a younger guy wanted her. I'm sure most of them are like that cause that's the last thing they want is some clingy young guy. I treated her with respect too which she liked. She had asked me to go back to a hotel with her that late night which I never did. My buddy had a house on an island I was crashing at and I was way too intoxicated to drive anywhere. I always look back at that night with what ifs that's for sure.
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