FortunateSon Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 My ex blocked me on Facebook, but would sporadically unblocked me from time to time, I'm guessing to "check up" on me. I rarely post on FB, I did not stalk her at all, the only way I knew this was old pictures/posts of her would reappear when she unblocked me. I noticed she unblocked me again and I took it upon myself to immediately block her! It feels very empowering to know that I have that control now and will not be subjected to seeing the ever changing new profile pics of her and her homely new boyfriend when her controlling personality decides to unblock me and check up. My only hope is that she does not try to contact me when she sees that I blocked her, unfortunately I wouldn't be surprised if she doesn't take that well. I am not trying to play any games like her, I just want to move on! 4
Fufu Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 My ex blocked me on Facebook, but would sporadically unblocked me from time to time, I'm guessing to "check up" on me. I rarely post on FB, I did not stalk her at all, the only way I knew this was old pictures/posts of her would reappear when she unblocked me. I noticed she unblocked me again and I took it upon myself to immediately block her! It feels very empowering to know that I have that control now and will not be subjected to seeing the ever changing new profile pics of her and her homely new boyfriend when her controlling personality decides to unblock me and check up. My only hope is that she does not try to contact me when she sees that I blocked her, unfortunately I wouldn't be surprised if she doesn't take that well. I am not trying to play any games like her, I just want to move on! Be strong, way to go for making the right move 1
Author FortunateSon Posted January 10, 2014 Author Posted January 10, 2014 Thank you every, it feels good to have gotten "control" of that aspect. I would have done it earlier but there was still a bit of hope in me and my window of opportunity was limited, she would unblock, then reblock again in a day two. I am not sure why she felt the need to keep blocking and unblocking, just to be being nosey and controlling, I suppose? If she is happy in a new relationship, I am not sure why she would do that? Part of me thinks she wanted me to she her profile picture with her new guy? She is cruel like that...
Trapito Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 Thank you every, it feels good to have gotten "control" of that aspect. I would have done it earlier but there was still a bit of hope in me and my window of opportunity was limited, she would unblock, then reblock again in a day two. I am not sure why she felt the need to keep blocking and unblocking, just to be being nosey and controlling, I suppose? If she is happy in a new relationship, I am not sure why she would do that? Part of me thinks she wanted me to she her profile picture with her new guy? She is cruel like that... She probably wanted to see if you were moving on and if you didn't, she would get a nice little ego boost. I don't think she even thougt about the fact that if she could see you, you could also see her. Good for you for blocking her, ha! 1
Author FortunateSon Posted January 10, 2014 Author Posted January 10, 2014 Considering I rarely post in Facebook, especially personal stuff like that, there isn't anything to see of mine? She knows this. I hope the mystery of it all gets to her. She knows I have been casually dating, if she was truly happy with this new boyfriend, I am not sure why she would need to do this? With her checking up like this every month, I assume at some point she will realized I blocked her? I hope that I do not get an angry text or email about it as that will fall on deaf ears too!
polynomial Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 Considering I rarely post in Facebook, especially personal stuff like that, there isn't anything to see of mine? She knows this. I hope the mystery of it all gets to her. She knows I have been casually dating, if she was truly happy with this new boyfriend, I am not sure why she would need to do this? With her checking up like this every month, I assume at some point she will realized I blocked her? I hope that I do not get an angry text or email about it as that will fall on deaf ears too! Would be hilarious yet illogical if she texted you about that lol. Anyway, no point in wondering why she did what she did. Best leave her blocked and move on. 1
Trapito Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 She will notice, if she is going to react is another question. But I guess, she will be pissed by this 1
Author FortunateSon Posted January 10, 2014 Author Posted January 10, 2014 I only say she may respond with anger because I was NC since early November until she broke it in early December. She wanted to make peace and find closure because she was upset and we didn't end well. She was also bothered she saw me with another woman. She said that she was dating someone but shouldn't be because of issues she stilled carried from our past relationship and that she was hated and was still very angry with me. Sounds like a healthy relationship. When she broke NC, had a brief exchange where she became angry and NC ensued again. I almost feel sorry for her and the new BF, it sounds like she jumped into a relationship with someone because she can't be alone. I was always available to her and I can see her being upset about this blocking from me. She is a self proclaimed control freak and I am in control of this aspect now. I feel good about it, I am done caring how she feels, it is about me and me moving forward now!
Trapito Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 (edited) I read your previous thread where she bashed you through email. You don't owe her anything! She probably wants you to feel bad and sulk, praying every night for her to come back, while you wipe your tears on the sleeve of your pajamas. Well, screw her! Screw that asshat! Live your fabulous life and let her be unsure about her relationship, it is not your problem. Let her be angry for you blocking her, just don't respond. EVER! Edited January 10, 2014 by Trapito 2
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