irc333 Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 "Cruisin'" a term in which someone whose sole purpose is to find someone of the opposite sex to get together with. It may not necessarily be a "hook up" or one-night stand, but more focused on finding a girlfriend/sig other. Or it could mean a fling. I recall some of the posts here people talk about the "Meetups" they've been to at Meetup.com. Real life gatherings where get together in some kind of special events situation. Usually beats the online thing because you can be yourself, be in a natural environment without the pressure of an "interview-like" scenario. Light conversations surrounding the event at hand. Be it hiking, kayaking, camping, board games, etc. But...as with any Meetup event or group, there's always those people that are there for one thing and one thing only, to find a mate. Usually they are so fixated on finding someone, they may have their blinders on, and really negate any real TRUE fellowship with fellow human beings as a whole. They are usually obssessed. I knew of this one woman, would see her all the time on Plenty of Fish AND in person at Meetups. You could swear she had ADD, because she'd never stick around any one meetup for a long time, while MOST stay at that one Meetup for the long haul. For a full day BBQ and Boating event, she'd bail early saying she had to be at a "Pool Party" on the other side of town. Chances are, she "Cruised" the selection, saw nothing she liked, and figured to leave and go somewhere else. I mean, why start friendships or even getting to kno wpeople in general? Some even drop out of the RSVP list at the last moment in case no "cute guys /women" will be there. It's kind of sad really, but do you think this method will just do themselves a disservice by running around mindlessly finding "The one" and not socialize themselves properly? "Woah, bunch of ugly dudes here, gotta go!!" Never mind the enjoyable scenery or the sunset or just chatting.
Mrlonelyone Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 Yes people do that. They are doing themselves a disservice. If they stay at the event they may find that a man who doesn't get their juices flowing by sight can make them tingle a little with his personality. If only... Just remember that when it comes to mating looks are the #1 thing that attracts further interaction and you will never be surprised by these things.
PogoStick Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 I thought it meant to drive your car around.
Author irc333 Posted January 10, 2014 Author Posted January 10, 2014 Yes people do that. They are doing themselves a disservice. If they stay at the event they may find that a man who doesn't get their juices flowing by sight can make them tingle a little with his personality. If only... Just remember that when it comes to mating looks are the #1 thing that attracts further interaction and you will never be surprised by these things. Yeah, but I didn't kno some people were so obsessed with looks, that they would give up any kind of friendship opportunities in the community. I actually heard a woman say she wouldn't go to certain events unless a "cute guy" was there. Kinda sad.
hpjunke Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 Yes people do that. They are doing themselves a disservice. If they stay at the event they may find that a man who doesn't get their juices flowing by sight can make them tingle a little with his personality. If only... Just remember that when it comes to mating looks are the #1 thing that attracts further interaction and you will never be surprised by these things. I love reading all these post .. this is excatly what I feel I'm dealing with after a third time of reconnecting and now I regret it
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