ponchsox Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 I'm trying to date and get back on my feet after a LTR but I'm afraid of getting heartbroken again and I'm not very motivated to date right now. My relationship was 1.5 years and I was very betrayed. Is this normal? Any suggestions on how to approach dating again?
ayudorama Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 I don't know what qualifies as 'normal', but being even further down the healing than you (9 1/2 months post-BU) I'm not ready to meet anyone new, not even casually date. I have no desire to put myself out there and be vulnerable as yet. Sorry I can't give you any suggestions! But hey know you're not alone.
mantlefan Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 I am 5 months post BU (2 weeks post-finding out she left me for a good friend). I am not quite ready to date, but I know that becoming vulnerable will be worth the risk again someday. Hang in there!
Mariposa10 Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 It's been 6 months since my breakup and I've finally started feeling a little bit ready... So, don't be too hard on yourself.
Winter blue Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 Take it slow. You will know when you are ready. I'm also at 6 month mark and I still think about my ex from time to time. Seeing other people actually makes me think about her more, so I know I'm not ready yet. But I'm not pushing them away neither. I'm just taking it really really slow. 1
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