Bishop556 Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 How can I learn to happy knowing the woman that I love does not want to be with me anymore? She is already dating someone else a month after we ended our relationship, and I feel like an emotional wreck. I'm trying to look at the bright side of life, but I feel empty without her. I guess I just miss her today more than others.
pickflicker Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 Date again. That's a sure-fire cure. There isn't an answer to your question. But I have found, that if you've got plenty of friends, plenty of people in your corner, plenty of things to do, you recover faster. That's been my recipe for success.
MoooOinkBaaa Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 Easy, find a purpose in life. Mine is helping others help themselves. It's hard breaking up, you feel like you're back in the real world, alone. Being in love is a sweet warm blanket in a cold world. You just need to get used to the new climate change and explore your new possibilities 1
robbysurfs Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 Hey man, It sucks at first the same thing happened to me 10 months ago. I was wrecked bro so I took time and faced the pain. I wrote on here, I talked to friends, I rode my bike, I jogged, and picked up a old hobby. Let time take time I would not suggest dating right away. I did and I only compared them to my ex and got more depressed. Go through the pain and when the smoke clears I promise you will still be standing and standing a better person. It will pass but do some things for you chin up and eat some ice cream and do what ever it is that makes you happy and time will pass and so will your feelings. Check this a older guy told me a few things and I thought hard about them. For one feelings are not facts there just feelings and how your feeling and how your doing are two different things. Two ask yourself this you obviously had a falling out it didnt work with you two. So do you miss her or how she made you feel about you....just some food for thought but this shall pass trust the process hommie youll be a better man after. 2
Softie Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 Time Friends Family Interests Pampering Allowing myself to cry but indoors mostly Exercising More time More pampering Self help literature & MP3 There is no magic wand. But I do believe that positive thinking & actions is better than wallowing as each naturally produce more of the same so spiral down or spiral up. It's a choice. Of course we have dips & lows but you can either stay down there or do one of the above to pick yourself up again & after sometime you will have moved on. xxxxx
jphcbpa Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 date yourself. take yourself out for a great meal, get a massage, take a trip. wine and dine your favorite person. YOU!!!
TaraMaiden Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 How can I learn to happy knowing the woman that I love does not want to be with me anymore? She is already dating someone else a month after we ended our relationship, and I feel like an emotional wreck. I'm trying to look at the bright side of life, but I feel empty without her. I guess I just miss her today more than others. It's only been a couple of months. Have you been complete No Contact during that time?
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