slightly_unusual Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 so my new girlfriend and I have slept together twice and done everything bar intercourse , she says she,s not yet ready , we see each other no more than twice per week due to distance apart , she asked me to her place this coming Saturday but im thinking maybe I should make an excuse and let it run to a full week ( we slept together last night ) so as to perhaps let her know I don't want to wait for ever for sex
Philosoraptor Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 So you want to play games for her to somehow understand that you don't want to wait forever to have sex? So you want to manipulate her into doing what you want? How is not spending time with her going to help get her to the point that she wants to have sex with you? If she has a backbone on her all games will do is leave you having sex with your hand. You've got a girl who is being intimate with you and does want to keep spending time with you... and you want to risk that by playing games because you're impatient? 2
Sand Man Dan Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 Bad idea. Let her take her time. If you don't want to wait, then leave. 1
skela Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 Sounds like you're in this more for sex than a relationship. If that's the case find someone else. Don't be immature and play games. 2
d0nnivain Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 Think about this logically. You want to have sex. Last night you slept together which I'm assuming means caught zzzzzz's in the same bed. She invited you over on Saturday, but instead of going you want to blow her off on prime date night to "teach her" that you won't wait for ever for sex. Does that sound reasonable or effective to you? Really? Here's a clue: She won't have sex with you until she feels more secure & loved in the relationship. Blowing her off on Saturday will make her insecure & cause her to believe that you aren't into her & are not worthy of her trust. Where in there do you think your disappearing act is going to get her to give it up? 1
clia Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 As donnivan pointed out, your logic makes no sense. It is also pretty scummy to try to punish your girlfriend into having sex with you before she's ready. If you really cared about her as a person rather than as a receptacle for your penis, this line of thinking wouldn't even be crossing your mind. Definitely decline her invitation for Saturday night. Maybe she can go out with her girlfriends and find a boyfriend who isn't such a douche. 1
soccerrprp Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 "done everything bar intercourse." So, you are having sex, right? Just no coitus or anal. Are you having orgasms? By oral or otherwise? Is she? I agree with others. This is about the sex, so she'd be better off w/o you. 1
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