mixeypixey Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 I'm sure you all can relate. I went through probably one of the worst emotional experiences I've had in the last 5 years of my life. It was the first time I had really fallen in love in a very long time... but I fell with the wrong person at the wrong time... and holy **** I got heart broken and just really... It felt like being thrown over a cliff... like my life and my whole identity just got run over by a train... anyhow it's been like half a year now... and I feel like I need a new girlfriend cuz I'm losing my mind, my style a little bit... and I'm lonely, bored and I need a new girl just to get back out there and feel alive again... I haven't done this **** in a long time (talking to new girls)... there are some prospects and possibilities but that previous breakup just traumatized the hell out of me that I feel so scared to even talk to a new girl... I'm just kinda putting this out there because this is the beauty of the internet...
tlegend Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 I'm sure you all can relate. I went through probably one of the worst emotional experiences I've had in the last 5 years of my life. It was the first time I had really fallen in love in a very long time... but I fell with the wrong person at the wrong time... and holy **** I got heart broken and just really... It felt like being thrown over a cliff... like my life and my whole identity just got run over by a train... anyhow it's been like half a year now... and I feel like I need a new girlfriend cuz I'm losing my mind, my style a little bit... and I'm lonely, bored and I need a new girl just to get back out there and feel alive again... I haven't done this **** in a long time (talking to new girls)... there are some prospects and possibilities but that previous breakup just traumatized the hell out of me that I feel so scared to even talk to a new girl... I'm just kinda putting this out there because this is the beauty of the internet... If that is how you feel, then diving into another relationship is not even plausible as it will only end in heartbreak. You want to move on from someone? You have to get back being happy with yourself. Until you are happy with yourself, you will NOT be able to make someone else happy. Don't even try it. You'll just hurt yourself more. Casually date to get your confidence up, do some of your favorite hobbies, and get back to being you! Once you do that, women will notice you are a man with a plan, and you'll notice you'll start getting looked at more than once when your path in life crosses another woman.
Author mixeypixey Posted January 11, 2014 Author Posted January 11, 2014 If that is how you feel, then diving into another relationship is not even plausible as it will only end in heartbreak. You want to move on from someone? You have to get back being happy with yourself. Until you are happy with yourself, you will NOT be able to make someone else happy. Don't even try it. You'll just hurt yourself more. Casually date to get your confidence up, do some of your favorite hobbies, and get back to being you! Once you do that, women will notice you are a man with a plan, and you'll notice you'll start getting looked at more than once when your path in life crosses another woman. Deep down inside that is EXACTLY how I feel. But this process of getting back to who I really am.... is a lonely and tough road... it's incredibly lame... Anyways.. you're right.. maybe I just need to fk around.. and be where I need to be in terms of my life plan.. I need to be a lot less sensitive about screwing around with women.. it'll make a man out of me.. Anyways isn't this odd? Sharing so much private stuff anonymously.. the internet has changed the world indeed.. maybe it has changed personalities and people.. of course it has! strange times.. thanks tho
Eggplant Posted January 12, 2014 Posted January 12, 2014 You're not alone. Have faith that it'll get better with time.
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