GemmaUK Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 well and that's kind of what I was thinking too, GemmaUK. 2 months really isn't a lot of time at all and I think that it's completely sane / rational to not know what you want this early in, (even though I'm sure I do). I guess that's why I am a little put off by why it was brought up in the first place. I would put it down to a blip which she perhaps shouldn't have even mentioned to you. She saw her ex and obviously doesn't see him often. When she saw him her thoughts would have gone straight to you (as well as the divorce) and she is now in a really new situation. I don't think you have anything to worry about - just take things day by day. The other thought is she may have got the vibe that you are thinking further ahead so this was a 'let's chill and take it day by day' hint. - which is fine also. We do all take relationships day by day after all - even when we're in them for years.
ExpatInItaly Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 I have been given the same line. He didn't know what he wanted any more. I took that to mean he didn't know if he wanted me, which was in fact the case. I hung on for a little while because we had a long history. Eventually, it ended. I knew what I wanted, and he still didn't. He clearly didn't want me enough to keep me, though. Just my experience.
Author ard2322 Posted January 9, 2014 Author Posted January 9, 2014 GemmaUK, that's very sound. And I think that's the exact mindset I need to have when she and I get together to talk about it.
Author ard2322 Posted January 10, 2014 Author Posted January 10, 2014 Thank you all for the replies. Anything else I should consider?
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