What does this mean....really?

[Luke12345]

I recently had a bad breakup with my ex, she's 18 and I'm 22. She hurt me bad, so I called her and told her I wasn't happy at all and said for us not to contact each other, basically started NC with her knowing.

 

I'm not sure if this makes any difference but she is a bit immature I would say. Basically she deleted me immediately off BBM but I saw her message first 'I'm going to get rid of everything to do with you, you don't realise how much you broke me. You only ever see my flaws!'

 

She didn't delete me off fb straight away, that was a day later. I thought I would just leave it all and not contact or reply anyway but she's gone ahead and done it.

 

I'm starting to really miss her already and I really want to talk to her (I won't just yet it's too early I know) but I want her in my life in some way eventually, even if it's just friends and can't help but be hurt by this and think I've destroyed any chance of this.

 

I'd like to know your thoughts on this though, what does this truly mean? Is she actually moving on? Or something else?

 

And what should I do about it?

[David87]

She is 18 and I should end it with that, move on.

 

What did you expect ? That she will be with you forever ?

 

Sorry for beeing hard on you, but right now it's the right time for you to man UP !!!

[Fufu]

I recently had a bad breakup with my ex, she's 18 and I'm 22. She hurt me bad, so I called her and told her I wasn't happy at all and said for us not to contact each other, basically started NC with her knowing.

 

I'm not sure if this makes any difference but she is a bit immature I would say. Basically she deleted me immediately off BBM but I saw her message first 'I'm going to get rid of everything to do with you, you don't realise how much you broke me. You only ever see my flaws!'

 

She didn't delete me off fb straight away, that was a day later. I thought I would just leave it all and not contact or reply anyway but she's gone ahead and done it.

 

I'm starting to really miss her already and I really want to talk to her (I won't just yet it's too early I know) but I want her in my life in some way eventually, even if it's just friends and can't help but be hurt by this and think I've destroyed any chance of this.

 

I'd like to know your thoughts on this though, what does this truly mean? Is she actually moving on? Or something else?

 

And what should I do about it?

 

 

You already said you want cease contact with her, why go against what you have said?

 

It's very natural to miss her since the break up is still fresh.

 

No one knows if she is moving on or not.. but you have to start moving on.

 

You mentioned she hurt you bad? what exactly it is?