BadaceAcura Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 (edited) I don't understand how things went wrong in my past relationship but somewhere something went wrong, Catch you guys up on where I'm at, My Ex gf and I split 7 weeks ago because she kept pushing off telling her parents about me. It was ultimately my decision because I was tired of being hidden all the time but at the same time I loved her with all my heart and had a future mapped out with her. Granted she was in college but I felt we had that connection, I was hesitant on dating her to begin with due to the fact that I knew she was going off to college but she convinced me that things were going to be fine blah blah blah. Well the total term of the relationship was 2.5 yrs in total and she is a junior in college. the first year was great no fights arguments or nothing aside from Christmas the first year when I bought her a t.v. because she was moving into her own apt and I figured she could use it in her room. she bitched me out for it saying it wasn't what she wanted that was the first red flag. fast forward up to 6 months ago, this is where the shadiness comes into play.. 6 months ago I asked about her coming out to her parents about us because we had been together for over a year and half which to me is in the serious phase so I figured it would be the right thing to do,(Little did I know that her parents views were Bigotted(Im white/native american). well she kept saying give me time or give me a couple weeks till finally I said I had enough of the pushing off and reached my breaking point and ended it because she would not tell them about me. It made me feel so worthless to her and un appreciated. I stuck to my guns but eventually we got back together week later with her promising me that she would tell them about me if I held out until she got through with college, seeing that her parents paid everything except her rent and schooling. they paid car payment cell phone etc. I knew with love come sacrifice so I agreed and we picked back up where we left off. While being split up I learned that she went to a house party in a city 3 hours away while we were dating and never told me about going(second red flag) and then received a speeding ticket coming home because I was meeting her that day. she just explained she got a ticket coming home from school and asked for me to pay and I was like its not my place. Now we are at the current split up which happened because we were discussing something one night and she brought up that she was going to tell her parents in another 3 yrs once she was out of her masters program. that was too much for me to risk so I said to hell with it and ended it once again because she was not working with me knor making any sacrifice for the relationship, even when I explained if her parents were to turn their backs on her I could provide all the materialistic things that they were threatening to take.( I did not ask her to choose her family over me, I just asked her to fight for us) in the end she didn't fight instead she made me go speak with her father for permission to date her which he stated he didn't care it was the mother and her side of the family that had an issue and he would not turn his back. finally I got to the point of giving up because I fought with everything I had and she still was acting confused and wouldn't make a choice saying give her till exams to make a choice and she was 95% sure she was going to choose me. I gave her till exams ended and she ended up saying that she could not stand up for us blah blah blah. starts tweeting hurtful crap on twitter about wanting a nice country boy. that she was a hopeless romantic and never settle if its meant to be it will be. but also tweeting heartbroken that's hard to fix. She kept telling me that she had no choice and she was in a rock and a hard place but yet playing games I then I entered Nc aside from trying to get my spare set of car keys from her. everytime I asked about them (once a week) and she preferred a face to face which I would not comply with until 3 weeks ago and still go an excuse saying she for got to text me after dinner and was already headed home. she acted like she was going to drop them off or send them but never did. Finally I mailed her apt key to her... maintained stern nc and this past sunday she text me saying hey. I wait a whole 28 hours to respond with a simple Keys? she replies with what. I told her she knew what I was referring too. then says I don't have to be a jerk and said she still had them and promised to get them back to me this weekend. goes on about how she is struggling with the split still but there is nothing she can do blah blah but was wanting to see how I was doing. mind you for the last month she acted like she didn't care to talk to me.( She also said that she was struggling with the whole situation but trying to make the best of it because there was nothing she could do) Yet she posted on twitter the other night ( the Friday before she texted me which was sun she posted she fd up) Trying to get her life back together) My question is What is the game with my keys and all the excuses saying she has been super busy or forgot to text when I know that is a load of bs. she has been spotted in town literally 3 mins from my house and could have dropped it off in my mailbox. especially when she texted saying she was bringing them in the past and never did. Edited January 9, 2014 by BadaceAcura
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