rebecca1992 Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 So this guy and I meant and we have so much in common. We both want the same things in life. Both want to travel. Have the same interests. Make each other laugh, get along great. Everything just seems like it is supposed to be. When we first met, he had a girlfriend of two years but was very unhappy and claimed how they didn't get along and were two different people. We got to know each other as friends and realized how much we had in common. I have too much respect for relationships that I did not want to get in the way of their relationship so we kept it in the "friendzone". We would have many long conversations until like 3 or 4 in the morning just talking. While he was still dating her he told me that I was an amazing person and that whenever he gets the balls to break up with her he wants to take me out. Well he did a couple weeks later and asked me to go out, so we did. We started hanging out, and eventually dated and so forth. We went on trips together and did all the things we both enjoy. When school started for the fall semester a couple weeks in he broke up saying he couldn't be the best boyfriend for me and that he was stressed with school and such. I was crushed. Months passed and I asked him to come over one day for more closure. He did and we talked then headed back up to school. He texted me after and again we started to talk, there was this undeniable spark when he came over. We decided to take it slow and just see how it goes. It was going well when he told me that he just can't fall in love with me and it makes him mad because I am such an awesome girl. He is waiting for a call for the job he wants and hasn't received one yet so some people think he doesn't want to involve anyone until he has that settled. Please what are some people's opinions?
Fufu Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 So this guy and I meant and we have so much in common. We both want the same things in life. Both want to travel. Have the same interests. Make each other laugh, get along great. Everything just seems like it is supposed to be. When we first met, he had a girlfriend of two years but was very unhappy and claimed how they didn't get along and were two different people. We got to know each other as friends and realized how much we had in common. I have too much respect for relationships that I did not want to get in the way of their relationship so we kept it in the "friendzone". We would have many long conversations until like 3 or 4 in the morning just talking. While he was still dating her he told me that I was an amazing person and that whenever he gets the balls to break up with her he wants to take me out. Well he did a couple weeks later and asked me to go out, so we did. We started hanging out, and eventually dated and so forth. We went on trips together and did all the things we both enjoy. When school started for the fall semester a couple weeks in he broke up saying he couldn't be the best boyfriend for me and that he was stressed with school and such. I was crushed. Months passed and I asked him to come over one day for more closure. He did and we talked then headed back up to school. He texted me after and again we started to talk, there was this undeniable spark when he came over. We decided to take it slow and just see how it goes. It was going well when he told me that he just can't fall in love with me and it makes him mad because I am such an awesome girl. He is waiting for a call for the job he wants and hasn't received one yet so some people think he doesn't want to involve anyone until he has that settled. Please what are some people's opinions? Everything seems to happen too fast..... a new relationship that started right away after another relationship breaks (in my opinion), is usually not a very good sign. Even though he may have lose his feelings for his ex, it is still a 2 years worth of relationship that he needs to take some time to grieve and be single for a while. Since he is not ready to date, leave him alone first. When he's ready, let him take the action. My suggest for you is not to wait (because waiting for an uncertainty is going to make you feel very miserable)
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