cuonline Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 (edited) I would like to get some advice here, the thing is, I've been living in with my fiancée for a year and a month now, what I know about her past sexual partners is that she had only one(1), the father of her 3year old daughter, that's what she told me, and she made me ask, I was not interested in finding out how many men came into her before me. This morning I received a call from a number I don't know, at 2h00am, the guy called my phone, me-hello caller-yyeaa and paused Me-hello! Caller-mute Then I hang up, He then called immediately Me-who are you Caller-i just want to ask Me-what? Caller-is your wife still good in bed? Me-what? "And my fiancée looked at my side a bit and back to rest" Caller-do you still feel your wife in bed? Since I'm already done with her Me-you are crazy Then I hang up I then put my phone on silent till 5h00am on my way to work and to find out he called me 7more times again but left no voice message. When I call the number this morning It can't go through, it's off and there is no voice mail, I asked my fiancée about this since I woke up to work before her, and she had a feeling that I was speaking to one of my mistresses, of which I don't have any. I really don't understand how and when he got my number, since I don't even post my number on facebook, but to make myself feel better and not to get angry and demand answers from her, I just assumed she must have gave someone who is after her, my number instead of hers, I don't know, should I ask her about this? How do I approach this? If I ever find out she knows this guy and they banged while in relationship with me what then? what would you do if you were in my shoes and what would you do if you were my fiancée and I ask you about this? And to clarify this, this man speaks a different language to her ex's language. So it is not him. Please help me, I'm at work now and my mind is still on this. Edited January 9, 2014 by cuonline spelling
Raena Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 Why would you automatically assume she gave out your number? Could it be that it's just a wrong number?
beach Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 Since he never called your wife by her name - it's possible he dialed a random number - when you gave him a reaction - he wanted more.
Author cuonline Posted January 9, 2014 Author Posted January 9, 2014 Why would you automatically assume she gave out your number? Could it be that it's just a wrong number? Some women around this country, when they are not interested in a guy and keeps pushing they give them their boyfriend's number instead of theirs, so they will stop running after them
Author cuonline Posted January 9, 2014 Author Posted January 9, 2014 Since he never called your wife by her name - it's possible he dialed a random number - when you gave him a reaction - he wanted more. I never thought this way, and yes, if he knew her very well he would have called her by her name, that makes sense
gaius Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 Pick up next time and ask him what her name is or about some other detail only someone who's been with her might know. If he refuses to answer ridicule him and try to get an answer out. If he does give you a correct reply you might have a problem. Maybe you find the whole thing annoying but in a way it's a gift. He's either a guy who's exposing that your fiance is lying about something or a dude who's hung up on her and how sexy is that. You get her and he doesn't. Or if he is just a nut cranking random phone numbers it gives you an interesting story to tell.
nescafe1982 Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 This is some crazy stalker stuff. Block the number. Done.
whichwayisup Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 I asked my fiancée about this since I woke up to work before her, and she had a feeling that I was speaking to one of my mistresses, of which I don't have any. This is a bit of red flag. She kind of accuses you of speaking to one of your mistresses? Which you don't have. Give that some thought and start paying attention closely to her behaviour, especially around her phone. Don't ask anything, just quietly pay attention. If she leaves the room, look at her phone. Is it password protected? Other than that one incident, can you think of any suspicious behaviour from her?
Recommended Posts