napy666 Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 My friend stays with her boyfriend of 1 year at his apartment home with his mom, sister, and her daughter who/s 7-8 years old chubby little girl. My friend really hates the fact that this little girl is a real brat and spoiled rotten. And she prefers hanging around adults than kids. Even during dinner if my friend and her boyfriend want to sit together at the dinner table this little girl will run up and get in between them or this little girl will get upset over EVERYTHING. Throwing herself to the floor and crying her eyes out. It's so bad that this little girl's mom and grandma has to take her to the bathroom and be with her in their while she does her business. Even when picking her up from school, if her mom or the grandma is late they cry and think there the worse parent in the world. This kid getting toys everyday or getting expensive clothes from Gap, Old Navy, Gymblee, etc. My friend doesn't understand how this little girls family can let it get this far what do you think will happen with this little girl's life?
HokeyReligions Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 Either someone will shoot her or she'll be a faux celebrity without a clue. IMHO that is the worst kind d of parenting. Now, if that is just part of the story and maybe the kid has some health problems (mental or physical) there may be legit reasons she gets so much attention.
Keenly Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 Your friend should spend less time complaining about her boyfriends family and more time being thankful that his mom allows her to stay there. 5
DaisyLeigh1967 Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 Your friend should spend less time complaining about her boyfriends family and more time being thankful that his mom allows her to stay there. Exactly. Don't like it? There is the door. Adults provide for themselves. 1
lollipopspot Posted January 10, 2014 Posted January 10, 2014 My friend really hates the fact that this little girl is a real brat and spoiled rotten. I think this isn't the healthiest relationship for your friend. Why is she living there with the boyfriend's mother and sister? I agree with the poster who thinks the child sounds damaged. At least it sounds like she may not be getting appropriate parenting for her needs. 1
Author napy666 Posted January 13, 2014 Author Posted January 13, 2014 My friend says the little girl does things that aggravate her thats the issue she is staying there because she is with her boyfriend.
Janesays Posted January 14, 2014 Posted January 14, 2014 My friend says the little girl does things that aggravate her thats the issue she is staying there because she is with her boyfriend. Then "your friend" needs to move out, boyfriend or no boyfriend. 1
Author napy666 Posted January 15, 2014 Author Posted January 15, 2014 Yeah, my friend keeps going on and on saying this little girl is driving her nuts. I told her she can move out but she doesn't want too, she says why should I becuz of this little girl? So I told her to just go for a walk or the mall or the store when the little girl is there. So she is doing that but this little girl is still going at it. Like she says during her Birthday, my friend's Bday she had a BDay cake with candles, and this little girl comes in and blows out the candles, and is always right there in the middle of her and her boyfriemd or right there wanting to know what the adults are talking about.
almond Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 It is the child's home. Sounds like the poor thing has some behavioural issues or perhaps it is something else. Your friend is complaining because the child wants to spend time with the adults? That's silly. There are no younger children in the house - the kid wants to play with her brother and parents. This is not something to complain about. If she wants to be alone with her boyfriend, then she should get her own place. You don't come into a family home and get annoyed that there is a child around. Either way, your friend needs to accept the situation for what it is, and be tolerant. Again, she is staying in this family's home and she should make an effort with the little girl. If she cannot tolerate it, she needs to go and live elsewhere. Simple. 1
Author napy666 Posted January 15, 2014 Author Posted January 15, 2014 I have told her this but she wants to stay there because the boyfriend is there.
Tayla Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 Is this the same friend from Your "Mama's Boy" thread? Sometimes we need to mind our own business and stay like Switzerland- (neutral). Try that next time, be an ear without a mouth. As for the Little Girl, she'll grow up someday., for now she is a child living with grown ups that are in need of structure.... 2
Confuddled1983 Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 Yeah, my friend keeps going on and on saying this little girl is driving her nuts. I told her she can move out but she doesn't want too, she says why should I becuz of this little girl? Hmm in my opinion your friend sounds like a brat. "Why should I ......?" well maybe because she is an adult who should be taking care of herself - what does she want to happen? throw the kid out on the streets so she can live there in peace. If she wants peace and quiet then her and hew boyfriend need to find their own place to live in. I actually think it's very rude of her to even be telling tales of what goes on in a household that welcomes her into it. 2
mammasita Posted January 15, 2014 Posted January 15, 2014 Waaaaah, but my boyfriend is there.....Waaaaaaaah, but the kid is such a brat......Waaaaaaaah, but the kid blew my candles out......Waaaaaaaaaah, but the kid annoys me. 2
Author napy666 Posted January 15, 2014 Author Posted January 15, 2014 She says her and her boyfriend will move out next month but I doubt it.
turnera Posted January 17, 2014 Posted January 17, 2014 She says she and her boyfriend will move out next month but I doubt it.I still don't understand your question. Aside from asking how the little girl will turn out.
Author napy666 Posted January 18, 2014 Author Posted January 18, 2014 I just wanted to know what should my friend do? What would you do if you were in this situation?
beach Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 I just wanted to know what should my friend do? What would you do if you were in this situation? If grow the hell up and support myself enough to be on my own! The little girl is a brat because that's the way she gets attention! Dad should live on his own and parent the child directly. No girlfriend for a while - just consistency and solid boundaries until the child follows basic patterns that show decency. The mooch of a girlfriend should get out if she doesn't like it!
todreaminblue Posted January 18, 2014 Posted January 18, 2014 Waaaaah, but my boyfriend is there.....Waaaaaaaah, but the kid is such a brat......Waaaaaaaah, but the kid blew my candles out......Waaaaaaaaaah, but the kid annoys me. hahahahahhahha....ahem......too true......deb
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