jen008 Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 My sister broke up with her ex almost a year ago. He was hurt by it. They went their separate ways for a while, but they rekindled their friendship. Once they did they started having sex again. My sister eventually asked him if he sees this going back to a relationship, but he said he needs time for himself. They still continue to have sex. It's been 10 months now. Do you think he still loves her or using her for sex since he did have feelings for her before? I think my sister should move on, but she is not convinced.
thefez Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 sadly.. hes just using her (imho) if he is ahving sex but needs time, i mean come on.. thats a poor excuse for using her basically (you dont go to a car dealer and ask for a ten month test drive .. "just to see") 1
Haydn Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 yes, being used. 10 months! Move on. No contact today. 2
d0nnivain Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 There is a time honored "tradition" of post break up sex until something better comes along. With women like your sister, the guy doesn't even have to try very hard because she's holding out so much hope for something that will never be. 1
legion113 Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 yes, being used. 10 months! Move on. No contact today. Being used more than a rental car in las vegas.... 4
pickflicker Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 My sister broke up with her ex almost a year ago. He was hurt by it. They went their separate ways for a while, but they rekindled their friendship. Once they did they started having sex again. My sister eventually asked him if he sees this going back to a relationship, but he said he needs time for himself. They still continue to have sex. It's been 10 months now. Do you think he still loves her or using her for sex since he did have feelings for her before? I think my sister should move on, but she is not convinced. Yes, he is using her. Tell your sister that she cannot screw someone into loving her.
Fufu Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 Yes, he is using her. Tell your sister that she cannot screw someone into loving her. Seriously overly used...
David87 Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 My sister broke up with her ex almost a year ago. He was hurt by it. They went their separate ways for a while, but they rekindled their friendship. Once they did they started having sex again. My sister eventually asked him if he sees this going back to a relationship, but he said he needs time for himself. They still continue to have sex. It's been 10 months now. Do you think he still loves her or using her for sex since he did have feelings for her before? I think my sister should move on, but she is not convinced. He is using her big time, tell your sister to go NC asap.
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