Alex_Viet Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 My name Is Alex and I'm still currently suffering from a break up from a woman that I truly love. We been together for almost 2 years I thought she was the one for me the soul mate my other half. We talked about marriage kids and just being successful together. So it started as I met her through a social site we talked and got to know eachother next thing you know we were flirting then like eachother and started falling for eachother as days and months go on I moved in with her she resides in LA and I'm from the Bay Area as time went on bonded so much we were infantuated with each other until some struggles with my family and my ex baby mama I had to move back up to the Bay Area to take care of my daughter temporary. My love was sad and angry about it but she understood and agrees. As I was taking care of buisness with my family my love began to feel like I'm cheating on her which I never would have as days go by she has been so insecure it drove me mad and I told her I need a break from her she didn't like it but it was done. A week later I started missing her and started feeling depress and I told myself I made a mistake so i tried hitting her up she ignores me I called I begged I text her like crazy no reply so I decided I'm just going to go down there and tell her how much really love her but before that I bought her a promise ring it's what she always wanted then I went down to LA where she lives to prove to her I want to he with her and it was a mistake she wasn't having it told me to leave I left sad depress mopey while began driving on the 5 back up north till she text me "I'm sorry I love you too pls come back to me" I got excited and I came back to see her a lot of hugs and kisses. Then I left back up north for a bit take care of some buisness we still talked and love eachother unconditionally and I agreed to find us a spot in LA for us to move in together officially. So as time went on I saved up money for my trip back to LA for the rent and moving van I moved all her stuff from her old place to the new place while she was at work. Then we were settled then I went back up north to grab a few things and just to spend the holidays with my family before moving back down there permanently until disaster happen. She called me on dec.14th 2013 asking me " did you have sex with your ex baby mama" I said "no I would never do that plus you we don't get along to well" she insist on believing he baby mama and all the lies she told her. Keep in mind they do not get along they hate eachother and talk a lot of **** towards eachother. So I asked her "your going to believe a woman that don't like you manipulates you and you fall for it?" At the time my love was being very stubborn she always have been and very controlling through out our relationship she was the dominate one. Other then that she broked up with me that same day I was heart broken I felt like I did so much with this woman I was there for her everytime when she needed me for example financial struggles no food no gas. Me and family even loaned her a lot of money for her car notes bills etc but anyways back to what I was saying she broked up with me ignores me talks a lot of **** to me and rubs in my face she out on a fantastic date with another guy after a few days we broke up I was heart broken thinking why is she doing this to me trying to be mean and get me mad when it gets me sad? Till this day I haven't heard from her not knowing what she's doing if she is still in love with me or not the last text I ever got from her was Leave me alone go have sex with your ex baby mama since that's what your good at. So I mope everyday and I will never forgive what my ex baby mama did to my relationship. I also realize my ex love is being very manipulative towards me I realize my history with her she has been the mean one giving me tuff love. So I asked to go get my stuff back from our new house she said I sold it too bad honey I pawned everything don't come near me I put a restraining order on you.... She didn't at all fake threats. I tried telling her I would never hurt after all I did for her. I don't even remeber the last time she did something for me special besides buy me a phone. I spoiled this woman like crazy!!!! So now I feel like she showing her true colors like she used me to get things. She even said it her self not sure if she is serious or not or just to get me mad but I want to keep this short. I love this woman and now my heart is broken from her hurt words and over all drama it comes to a point in life I told myself I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. Now it's gone due to my other EX I will never forgive her for what she did. I know what your thinking this is stupid and childish but it is what it is I adore this woman when I had her. It's reply hard for me to move on as I have low self esteem I can't get over her so easily cause I know the break up was over something very stupid. I only wish to work things out with her if possible if not I don't know where to start to move on from any suggestions?
Chi townD Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 Can't shake the feeling that I've read this story before...hmmm.... Okay, future reference. PARAGRAPHS!!!! That was hard as hell to read and I'm sure I didn't get the whole story right. First question, why the hell is she talking to your baby's mama? HOW the hell are they talking to each other in the first place. Second question, Have you asked your baby's mama what the hell is going on and why did she say that stuff? Personally, just let her go. She sounds like a royal pain in the ass. Normally, I would tell you to recoup the money you lost when she pawned your sh*t. But, I'm at a point to tell you that, that crap can be replaced. Just move on and pretend she doesn't exist. BLOCK HER ON FACEBOOK!!!!
Author Alex_Viet Posted January 8, 2014 Author Posted January 8, 2014 First of all my bad I'm ok my iPhone typing. She hacks my social sites and previous conflict battle on social sites
Author Alex_Viet Posted January 8, 2014 Author Posted January 8, 2014 Yup been asked her apparently she says I don't like her nor you together so I said that. Basically being childish I can never forgive her j wanted to strangle her at one point
meeji Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 1: go get whatever is left of your stuff. 2: Forget about working things out. You don't want a woman who throws things back in your face, takes you for granted, uses you for money and doesn't trust you. From where I am standing, there is nothing to save. 3. It will be hard but delete every contact you have for her and start moving on. She is not the girl for you and she told you to leave her alone so keep it moving.
Prettygirlrock Posted January 9, 2014 Posted January 9, 2014 All that hard work and time ya"ll put into the relationship was ruined by your baby mama. I mean she is the only one to blame for all of this the fact that ya'll were moving in together and building a future a future and stuff was cool until your nosey ass baby mama came in the picture & told told her all that **** Anything is fixable but not when you got crazy baby Mamas in the mix you feel me? I had a similar situation wit my baby dad always getting into my **** and I finally had to cut him straight off now I got peace and quiet lol. Anyways you should move on and keep yo krazy exs out of the mix.
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