blueeyes24 Posted January 9, 2005 Posted January 9, 2005 Hi im new to this so bare with me. Well i have been seeing this guy for a month now and we talk on the phone alot when we can and he tells me how he feels and so i decide to tell him how i feel and we both seem to want the same thing in a relationship but he keeps telling me that the feelings he has for me he never had for anyone and it scares him but the only thing that is wrong is that he dont come and see me if he does its like once a week and then he will make plans to come and see me and then dont show up or call me. I keep telling him that if he keeps doing that he will just push me away and he said he dont want that cause he wants to be with me and no one else. I dont think it is getting in his head what im saying and i dont know what else to do cause i really care for this guy and i dont want to lose him either. He told me yesterday that when the first time he saw me he pretty much feld for me and so did i with him and right now my feelings for him are growing stronger when we talk and when i do get to see him. Plus he said when he is around me all he can do is think of one thing and we have not did that yet we are trying to take things slow and not rush into things but the feels we both are getting are coming on too fast. The thing i was wondering how can i keep his mind off that one thing so he can come to see me more often.
Groovy Posted January 9, 2005 Posted January 9, 2005 How old is he? It sounds like commitment issues to me. Sorry, girlfriend we have all dealt with that and they are really hard to handle. I have a three strikes you out rule. Give him a warning to not show up late or cancel, but if he does those things on more than three occassions he won't change. All you can do is tell him what's important to you. If he is mature and cares about you he will try to change those things. Good Luck!
Author blueeyes24 Posted January 9, 2005 Author Posted January 9, 2005 Well i did talk to him about it today and he said he was going to try his best to change and he is only 21 yrs old and he did just get out of a on and off relationship about 4 months ago now and he was with that one for about 3 yrs and he got hurt from her i keep trying to tell him dont worry i aint like her but not sure if its getting in his head or not. I told him one more time and thats it i hope he does change.
Author blueeyes24 Posted January 10, 2005 Author Posted January 10, 2005 Well i hope i did i guess i will just have to see what happens now i really hope he proves it to me soon
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