Gloria25 Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 Hi, How long do guys normally take to call if you give them your telephone number? Should they send you a message to let you know they got your number and intend to call? A little background...I met a guy online, did some e-mails back and forth with a positive vibe, so I gave him my tel. Now, I work odd shifts and let him know that, so not sure if he's waiting to call me when I'm not working. Thanks,
Shashasha Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 Hi, How long do guys normally take to call if you give them your telephone number? Should they send you a message to let you know they got your number and intend to call? A little background...I met a guy online, did some e-mails back and forth with a positive vibe, so I gave him my tel. Now, I work odd shifts and let him know that, so not sure if he's waiting to call me when I'm not working. Thanks, I think it depends. some guys take numbers from lots of girls at one go - and they might never even contact you...some take 2 weeks...I think if he contacts you after 1 month - he is probably just playing around.
spiderowl Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 I don't know when guys should call, but I know how pleased I was when a guy I'd been on a date with rang later that night just to see how I was and what I thought of the date. Fortunately, I liked him or I might have found that a bit much. In practice though it was very flattering that he cared enough to follow up so quickly. It took guts too so I really respected him for that. If I'd given him my number and he hadn't rung within a week, I'd be losing interest. If we'd been on a date and he hadn't rung the next day, I'd be concerned. Generally, I feel a guy will get in touch soon if he's interested and will only leave it if he's extremely and unusually busy, ill, or not that interested. 1
Leigh 87 Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 Very true. A guy will at least call or text you the day after the first date if he is into you. Normally the guys who were most into me texted and called me after the first date, sometimes even right after the date ended and we left each other.
Conners Posted January 8, 2014 Posted January 8, 2014 Depends if they are into the mind games BS! Some guys believe that you should wait 3 days before they call.. The whole "treat them mean, keep them keen" theory. My last BF did that to me in the beginning.. and it worked -__- I agree with Leigh87 though, most of the time if they are really into you, they will call the same day.
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